I am trying to stay positive....Hate to Whine

Hi all. I was hoping things were going to improve since surgery and away I go to a better life. Well, of course it's not working that way. Monday I will be 2 weeks post-op. I have an appointment with Dr. A tomorrow where all my issues will be addressed (thank goodness). Since Air Kitty landed on my belly I am experiencing pain that wasnt there before. And boy am I hurtin. I have 3 pain pills left that were prescribed and I'm trying to save them for an extreme moment. I did not get liquid Tylenol yet but will tomorrow. I hate to keep bothering people since I can't drive so tomorrow I have a list of things I need and after the Dr. will go get my must haves. I know i'm supposed to walk walk walk. I was walking at least the 20-30 minutes a day that were asked. It was tough since I am so out of shape and feeling blah but since I have been having the charlie horse issues I can barely walk at all. I only was able to for 15 minutes today. My legs hurt so so bad. I am trying to do stretches to work out the muscles but that only worsens it. I'm at a loss and am feeling like such a failure. Panic is also striking about finding a job and getting back to work. My unemployment runs out mid September and I just want to feel better so I can begin my job search. Thinking of all your success and praying I am blessed with the same. Hope you all have a Happy Friday. ~Julie~

Julie, I am so sorry you are having problems like this. I will say a prayer for you. Try not to worry about your unemployment running out, and try to concentrate on getting better physically. Stress can make it harder to recover. I wish I could say something to help you. Just hang in there, ok? This too shall pass, and things will get better. Anne

Hey Julie, you are welcome to whine alot here and we can listen this No hard feelings!!!! I am so sorry about your legs and hopefully Dr Aranow can move you up next stage so you can eat soft foods things today. Please to not worry about this job hunting now . Force your health and think one day at a time. Let God helps you through tough times. Please keep talking with us here and we are here to help you and listen your whine and angers or happy news. That is what it for Big Hug teddybear from me... Kathy K

Julie, I am glad you are having such a tough time. I hope Dr. Aranow has some suggestions. Maybe you need some potassium...for those leg cramps. Hang in there girliefried... It DOES get better. Hugs Joanie

Hey Joanie, Hang in there Joanie..it will get better . I will keep you close to my heart and pray with all my heart that things turn around and work out well. Dr A is wonderful and I am sure He will help you get past this bump. This is the time that our angels are strongest..they watch us and help . Hugs Pattie

Julie- one thing at a time, OK. You know, it's normal to be a little depressed and disappointed and feel way out of sorts at this itme. You're experiencing a major change (which your body does not care for!) and your hormones are going to start getting out of wack from the release of estrogen while your body uses up it's fat stores. Add all your work worries on top of that, and you could be in for a wild ride. Please DO talk to Dr. Aranow about how you're feeling and what's going on (especially your belly pain) He's a little tough love, but, I'm sure he will reassure you and perhaps work out a few solutions for you. You know, you can walk in increments. It's doesn't have to be all or nothing. I used to walk around my dining room every hour, when I didn't feel like going out. When I wanted some fresh air, I used to walk around the outside of my house 6 or 8 times a day. Taking a break inbetween, until I felt I could go again. It kept me busy and passed the time too. (I was getting a little crazy with all those food commercials on TV and seemed to develop an unnatural atachment to the Food Network during my recovery.) Keep on trying and do the best you can. Good luck at your appointment. I hope you get what you need. Hugs, Lisa

Hi Julie Sorry to hear you are having such problems post op. That is usually not the case. Hopefully the Dr's visit will clear up a bunch or all your questions and issues. Please don't feel like you can't vent here. This is the place to do it. With a little information from everyone, you can learn alot. Take care of your health first, then worry about the unemployment, that will hopefully work out. Stress will keep you from getting better. Please keep us posted. Luis

Julie: Hang in there. Things will get better. The last thing you need to do is worry. Worry gets you nowhere and just makes you fell bad. You are such a good person and beautiful inside and out I know good things are coming your way!!! Just hang on ok!!! Chryssie

(((HUGS))) for you Julie. I'm sorry to hear that you are having such a hard time. I hope Dr. A can get you back on track. Don't worry about employment until mid September. Concentrate on feeling better. Maggie

Julie, Prayers going up for you right now. I really hope things turn around quickly for you. I'm sure the doctor will be able to help tomorrow with all your concerns and you'll be up and running in no time. God Bless, Kathy Bilodeau