A News Story
This is just awful!
http://www.wftv.com/news/3643877/detail.html
I heard that on Gary Craig yesterday AM and couldn't believe it. I was enraged when they were making fun of her so I called into the station. Once I started explaining how rude and insensitive they were the person on the other line said "You must be fat yourself". WTF??? I just responded "No, I'm human" and hung up.
I will never listen to his radio show again. I'm thinking of writing to the station and letting them know I will never listen, and I will tell everyone who will listen why.
What a tragic story.
-Deb
Seems like lots of radio people thought this story was funny. I call it just plain sad.
This woman must have been terribly depressed and her husband must have been equally depressed to allow her to get this bad.
I know that most people who are obese really don't want to hear it from other people-I know I didn't like it when my partner would start to "nag" me, even though she did it in the most supportive manner she could think of.
We were talking about this situation last night and what we don't understand is why this woman stopped moving. Lots of people weigh as much as she did, but they are up and moving around. It's when you stop moving that the big problems start to pile up and the depression sets in, IMHO.
I was starting to get to that state prior to my surgery, walking upstairs wore me out, my knees hurt, my hips hurt, my back hurt. I could have sat on the recliner and chilled out...but I knew that I had to keep moving.
It's such a sad story and the rest of the world doesn't understand the toll that obesity takes on people-physically and emotionally...so they make jokes.
Ann
I had heard about this story on the radio as well. I don't know what station Gary Craig is on, but I'd be up for forming a complaint committee!! First of all, to laugh and make fun of someone who obviously suffered a fate we can't even imagine for ourselves is crude, but then to insult you when you call to offer an opinion. That makes me furious!!!
I can feel nothing but extreme sympathy for this woman, and incredulity that no one in her family or her friends would think to call the doctor sooner. My goodness!!
Kathy F.
TARA:
HEY GIRL! I FEEL SO SORRY FOR THAT WOMAN AND HER FAMILY. I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY HER HUSBAND DIDN'T CALL IN FOR INTERVENTION AT SOME POINT DURING THOSE SIX YEARS TO GET HELP FOR HER. IT JUST REALLY BOGGLES MY MIND.
AND TO DEBBIE-WHAT AN A**HOLE THAT GARY CRAIG IN THE MORNING IS. FIRST OFF FOR HIM TO FIND HUMOUR IN SUCH A TRAGIC SITUATION AND TO THEN PROCEED TO MAKE JOKES ABOUT IT LIVE ON THE AIR DOESN'T SAY MUCH FOR HIS INTEGRITY OR CHARACTER, AND IT IS PRETTY SAFE TO ASSUME THAT HE LACKS COMPLETELY IN THOSE DEPARTMENTS. AND THEN THE NERVE OF HIM TO SAY TO YOU, "YOU MUST BE A FAT PERSON YOURSELF," HOW F***ING DARE HE!!! I AM SO HEATED RIGHT NOW AS YOU CAN TELL!! I AM WONDERING DID HE SAY THIS TO YOU ON LIVE AIR OR ON A OFF THE AIR PHONE CALL??? EITHER WAY I SUGGEST YOU RENDER A COMPLAINT AGAINST HIM TO INFINITY BROADCASTING-ASK TO SPEAK TO THE DIRECTOR. THE NUMBER MY FRIEND GAVE ME IS 409-0232. IF IT IS NOT THE APPROPIATE PLACE TO FILE A COMPLAINT, THEN I WOULD SUGGEST ASKING TARA TO POINT YOU IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION, SEEING ON HOW SHE WORKS IN THE BROADCASTING FIELD AND I AM SURE IS MUCH MORE KNOWLEDGEABLE WITH THIS SUBJECT THEN I AM. AND IF HE DID SAY THAT TO YOU ON AIR-HE CAN'T GET OUT OF IT!! THERE WAS OBVIOUSLY WITNESSES!!! EXCUSE MY LANGUAGE BUT WHAT A ***** HE IS!!! HE OBVIOUSLY HAS NO TALENT, SEEING ON HOW HE HAS TO PUT DOWN OTHERS AND MAKE FUN OF THEM FOR HIM TO MAKE AN INTERESTING SHOW!! WELL ENOUGH SAID AND THANKS FOR LETTING ME VENT TO YOU!!! IF YOU NEED ANY HELP WITH THIS JUST LET ME KNOW!!!
WELL GOTTA GO NOW-HOPE EVERYONE HAS A GREAT DAY!!!
P.S.: TARA DID YOU EVER ASK YOUR DOCTOR IF YOU WERE PROXIMAL, MEDIAL, OR DISTAL IN YOUR BYPASS? JUST WONDERING! KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK!
MARY
GARY CRAIG