About to Scream!

Gee, I've been waiting for an answer to me appeal letter to Aetna since it was mailed on February 3. They said they received it February 10 and they have 30 days from then to make a decision. I cannot remember a more stressful time. I've been calling Aetna every other day, as well as having one of our Human Resources people at work call and try to get some answers. I do have scheduled date of April 27 for surgery, which the surgeon provides when we initially send out the appeal letter. When I first applied for the surgery in October of 2003, I got the "denial" letter within a week. I just don't know why this is taking so long and I'm so afraid they'll say no again. I have to have this surgery. My health is just going downhill daily and I'm so depressed. I read so many of the insurance sites, and almost all of them say approved, approved, approved after 1 day, 1 week, no problem at all. Maybe I'm not supposed to have this, but I get so upset when I'm in such bad shape and get denied, and lots of others get satisfaction right away. Thanks for hearing me - I'm just so edgy.

Linda! Hang in there hon. I know it's hard. Be strong. Just think, it's only a few more days before they HAVE to give you an answer. Take care & try to get your mind off of it. a big hug to you... Lisa C

Thanks for the nice reply, Lisa. I really appreciate just being heard. Not that many people know what it feels like to wait lit this. Have you had your surgery yet? Thanks again. Linda.

Hi, Trying to get my mind off it is hard, but really good advice. I'm occupying myself with crocheting a baby blanket for a friend and trying desperately to think good thoughts. Many thanks! Linda.

Hello Linda, It will happen then you'll be so excited! good luck and i hope the next message will be that you've gotten your date! god bless

Thanks so much for your words of encouragement, Pamela. It's really nice to hear someone speak like it's really going to happen. All the best! Linda.