Had my tummy tuck

Well your reccomendation of him was glowing as I remember- but I have worked with his patients post op for many years- both inpatient at Hartford Hospital and in the community as a VNA nurse- and knew even befoe I was healed from my gastric bypass- that he was going to do my plastics post weight loss. He is the best- no doubt....and so far so good except the damn drains are still in and are driving me nuts.....can't roll on my side, cant find anything to hide them well- I have a job interview Wednesday and now I need to go find a dress that'll hide the drains LOL  I am -of course- feeling a bit self conscious about how things look right now- but I am sure they'll settle down and uhh you know everything will go back into place- the uhh you know lily is a bit pulled up taut....needs to relax a little......lol...or maybe I am just not used to actually seeing it. The belly button got a bit  infected but I nipped that in the bud....so its all fine now.  The big thing is my boyfirend and I were planning a little escape later this month- he has a conference to go to and I was going to go up one night to visit him....i just hope i am drain free by then.....

Hi, Have you and John decided on getting a divorce?  In the long run, they say it is better for the kids all around if you do. Did the boyfriend tell his wife and family yet? Is John w/ someone else, too? I want a flat tummy and a lily that is taught!!!!!  In my dreams, now...it'll never happen for me.  :( Have fun, Paula

Honestly- John and I have discussed the future - and my relationship with the b/f is quite out in the open. John and are friends we dont fight we sleep in the same bed even...the fighting is over his anger is gone. He loves me and always will. I love him as well. I don't know what will happen with the b/f in long run i do know he feels as strongly fo rme as i do himand i do know he wants to be with me as well We will have to work it out eventually - but for now we are just  trying to figure out how we got to where we are.  No he hasn't told the wife- he'll be out on his ass when he does. As far as tummy tuck goes- it is different to look at the flat belly  that's for sure- i am floored. I have also lost 11 pounds since pre op i am   155 an amazing weight i used to scoff at the number 150 which represents the high end of my height s weight range...now i am almost there. bizarre

Ok... so am I the ONLY BROAD who does not know who Lily is? dorky T. 

uhhhh....a woman's privates! p

Hi Bernadette, how are you doing since this post was originally written,,sorry it has taken me so long to respond..i hope all is well with you,,so glad you were successful. congradulations on your new relationship as well..i hope you will continue to be happy in your journey.keep us all posted..my best wishes to you alwayus....cyndee post a new pic....   :)