UPDATE- STALKER'S REPLY TO ME!!!

OMFG!!!  THIS CHICK IS CRAZY!!!! Dear Sue, With all due respect, the e-mail I wrote was intended for your husband, not for you. How do I know that he even read the e-mail? Maybe you just have the password for his account and responded without telling him about my message at all. I have no way of knowing. In regard to your message to me, yes, it is true that pretty much all Don ever said to me was how happy he was with you and how much he loved you. And no, he never gave me the slightest shred of hope that he would ever even entertain the idea of pursuing ANY sort of a relationship with me whatsoever. However, things can change; and also don’t forget, he said all that BEFORE he ever got a chance to know me. I think if he talked to me for at least 5 minutes and gave me the time of day, he would change his mind; and THAT IS what is driving me nuts, that he won’t even talk to me to see if maybe, just maybe he might like me more than he likes you. You are right about me having lots of promise. I did state how beautiful I thought you were; but let’s not forget that I also am told quite often how gorgeous I am. So, while I know it is wrong to proposition a married man, and it is unfortunate that you saw my e-mail, I make no apologies for my feelings (which I can not control). In addition, my psychic is quite accurate and has never steered me wrong in the past, so while you may think it’s just “crazy talk”, I take her opinions quite seriously. I know this sounds sort of mean, and I really don’t mean for it to sound like that, I’m just very emotional right now (and I am crying). I appreciate that you are trying to teach me to “not act like a *****”, and I know you are right, there is just something about your husband that is irresistible to me. Look, I’m sorry for all this, I know it’s wrong, I’m just so confused and conflicted right now. How about this? Just please show Don the e-mail, and have DON respond to me. If DON tells me to go away forever (AGAIN!), then I promise you that I will. You really sound like a nice lady, I think under different cir****tances you and I could have been good friends, or at least you could have been a good teacher for me, certainly better than my own parents. Anyway, please just have DON respond and I’ll go away if he wants me to, “Scout’s Honor”. Bye Sue, Giselle

OMG - You're right - how very sad!  It is a potentially scary situation, although she's never threatened you in any way - she sounds like an on the edge person.  I think the best response at this point would be - Go Away and Get some Help.  I would pull down the myspace page and block all methods of communication from her.  If she continues, maybe you could contact her parents and send them a copy of the e'mail so maybe they can get her some help.  It would be interesting to know who her so called psychic is because I've never heard of any psychic giving that kind of advice.  It's very bizar! Hope it goes away for you soon. Just as a thought, it might not be a bad idea to just talk this over with a detective at the police department, not that any threats have been made, stalkers are very strange people and can do some strange or potentially dangerous things.

you said it all.

wow.   that is all i can manage to say.  Good luck

Oh my gosh...

Please tell your husband to read my e-mail because I really think I may have a chance with him and although I'm not trying to be mean, I'm really pretty too and if he would only talk to me and get to know me better, he would agree with my psychic that we're meant to be together.  Oh, and it's really too bad the situation that we're in because I really like you and I think we could have really become great friends.

This girl is seriously out of touch with reality.  I understand that you can't help what you feel, but you CAN help how you react to those feelings.  It would be totally different if she said - "Wow, that guy is hot - too bad he's married."  But to go through all this knowing he's a happily married man? Yes, she needs some help.

E-mail her back and tell her to stop.  Then create a new e-mail address for your hubby.  What a wingnut.

Good luck -

Michelle

I sent you my response before reading this.......YOU REALLY NEED TO CONTACT THE POLICE. Michele.

Yeah, I would have been like that guy is hot. Damn, too bad he is married. And how does she know that your dh is the guy the psycho errrr i mean psychic told her about. They tell you what you want to hear. Anyway, she really is living in a fantasy world since she said if he gave me five minutes he would change his mind. Someone else said something about High School and that really is the mentallity from there. I would contact the police and let them know what is going on just in case she gets worse.

This is very scary.  She needs serious help.  I think you should take a restraining order out on this woman.  She won't take no for an answer, has no self-respect and I would always be watching my back if I had this nutcase on my case.