I need help with finding a Dr

lllstric
on 7/10/07 3:57 am - middletown, CT
pm me yer address sweetie and I'll hook you up....you do not need referrals per say...just tell them that you need the appointment in order to proceed with Dr. Barba for whichever surgery you are looking into....if you want the RNY instead of lapband, then there are a couple of extra steps....if you start now...then you will be ahead of the game......it is well worth it my dear....DO NOT GIVE UP....the only thing that will happen if you give up is....you will forever be asking yourself "what if".....I love Dr. Barba..he is so personable....has a sense of humor and really, REALLY treats you like a person that  he wants to help....not just perform an operation on.....I'm sorry I haven't called you yet...4 kids...elderly mom..you know the story.....I will though.....and please, PLEASE tell me you will consider going to the picnic that is being held at Hamnonasset in August....there are so many wonderful, caring people you will meet who genuinely care about you and who are such a tremendous support system......I will be going through my papers so I can send you come copies......keep on keeping on.....and for God's sake...don't starve yourself.....you will be doing more harm than good.........love and peace....~laura

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nyg_girl80
on 7/10/07 4:07 am - Wethersfield, CT
Laura Of course I will be going to the picnic its the day before my b-day...and I am looking forward to being at a picnic and not worry what people are thinking of me.... I just called his office and his secratary (sp) said not to make any calls till the seminar in August but I want to get the process started cause aetna is a @#$%^&*(........ Dont worry about the call hun its ok i know busy, i have 2 kinds, a husband ( 3rd kid) a mom and a cat....LOL all whom i love but also keep me busy...and deep cleaning the house before vacation.... Pam
Susan C.
on 7/10/07 4:32 am - Cromwell, CT

Don't pick your surgeon based on location, you really won't see them that often. I live in Cromwell, just over the Rocky Hill line and had my surgery done at Yale with Dr. Bell. You'll really only have a pre-surgery appointment, surgery, a follow up at 2 weeks post op, possibly a 6 month post op and then yearly. Dr. Bell is salaried by the university so he's not in it for the money and they accept most insurances,  medicare and title 19.  He does lap RNY and starts all surgeries that way.  The only reason he ever does an open surgery is if the patient has too much scar tissue from previous abdominal surgeries so you would not get opened up for the "your too big for me to see" excuse that many surgeons use for not doing the lap surgery.   When he did my surgery back in 2005 he had already done over 400 lap rny procedures and of those he only had to do the open surgery on two patients.  Here's some info on Dr. Bell: http://research.yale.edu/ysm/article.jsp?articleID=16 http://www.yalesurgery.org/surgical_spec/faculty/bell.html Whomever you choose, you've taken the first steps to a whole new life and you'll be RUNNING around with your children in no time : ) Good luck, Sue 262/150 7/25/05 lap Rny

nyg_girl80
on 7/10/07 4:41 am - Wethersfield, CT
Thank Sue Yea I know Cromwell you are down the road from me... I was willing to go to new london until I found out he wouldnt be taking my insruance after sept 1st so if my surgery date was near i would have to pay out of pocket...NO WAY/// Pam
ramwelch
on 7/10/07 6:21 am, edited 7/10/07 6:29 am - somewhere, CT
I am scheduled for lap vertical sleeve gastrectomy with Dr. Bell and I will say that of all the Dr.'s I looked at he was tops. Not only him but his office staff are on top of things as well and that is almost as important since it is these people you will speak to when you call the office. I also heard that Dr. Tischler in Hartford was excellent. I was told to be sure that whichever hospital you use is a certified center of excellencee in Bariatric's, could be tops in cardiology but the pits in other areas. Good luck ........Marc I forgot to mention that I was there yesterday and he said that he has done over 500 RNY's so far and almost every one has been Lap.
nyg_girl80
on 7/10/07 11:40 am - Wethersfield, CT
I want to thank everyone for being so wonderful and caring to offer such great friendship and advice, I have decided to go with Dr.Barbas for now I will be going to his seminar Aug 13 ( day after b-day..) and with the help of some friends on here I will hopefully have most of my Dr's apt set by that date.. Thank You so much it meens the world to me that you all responded to my post and I hope to meet you all at the picnic at Hamenasette (sp) state park on the 11th of August... Pam
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