Newbie,, surgery 3*19*07 LAP RNY

Hello, everyone. I have been posting on my blog. Just giving an update on my journey to the new me. I'm alittle nervous and scared. Probably because a majority of my friends aren't being very supportive. I told them if they dont have anything good to say ,just dont say anything. I dont need them jinxing me. I have been on this journey for over a year. It's my time to do me. They dont know what it's like to be my size, so they can relate. I would love to have more friends to my profile.. I am also looking for an angel if anyone is interested. I am 31 mother of two and engaged to a very supportive man..hope to hear from you guys... Waiting

Don't let anyone get you down! Be proud of yourself for making this commitment and sticking to it. I had my surgery on 2/26/07, and I feel it was the best move I've ever made for myself. I also am a mother of two and wanted to ensure that I'd be around to see my boys grow up. Best of luck to you and I'll be sending you a notice to add you to my friends profile! Keep me posted on how your surgery goes.

Hi Jami ! I just wanted to let you know that I will be thinking about you and praying for you on Monday. I had my RNY on 1/5/07 and it is the best thing I've ever done for myself. Please let me know how it goes and if you need to talk, don't hesitate to write me. I, too, will send a request to add you to my friends list. Take care, Trish

Everyone here can relate to what you have been through. I am almost 1 year post op and have done well. If you ever have any questions and need to talk feel free to ask. Best of luck on your weight loss journey. Sher

Hi Jami, I want to wish you luck and a fun journey. It's only natural to be nervous and scared. but think of the wonderful life you'll have after. Just to be able to play with your kids without getting winded will be great. Don't worry about the nay sayers. they don't understand. Only another big person could understand what it's like to be us. This is a great journey and remember to listen to your doctor. and obey his rules. They will make the journey easier. and remember to chew chew and chew again. Also you will not wake up from surgery thin. It takes time to lose the weight but it will come off. Also use the first 18 months to your advantage. make to most of those months. Don't stray from the rules. Really. I was told that, (really it was drilled into my head) and it has made all the difference in the world. You could do it. Can't wait to hear from you when you're up to it.

Congratulations on your upcoming surgery! My prayers will be with you for an easy time and a fast recovery. You've got the right idea - this is for you - others can't live your life for you - we only have one time to get it right...........also congratulations on your engagement - exciting times ahead! Feel free to add me to your friends list! Best Regards, Tammy

Hi Jamie! Best wishes on Monday... everyone here is quite supportive. You are really is a great place! Seems like you are completely healthy in your thinking and I am glad you gave your friends that great advise of only positive thoughts! Being nervous is very normal. You are going to be so much better then you can imagine while you go through this new adventure! Sending you Blessing and good thoughts! Sweet Mammy (ps- I dont know much about being an angel.... buy I am always here! ~ live in Norwalk, but only an email away if that is too far!)

Hello Jaime, Welcome to the OH Family. I wish you all the very best on your surgery and your journey to the losing side. Congratulations on your engagement too. Thats awesome. If you ever need to chat dont hestiate to contact me or any of the other members here. Everyone is so wonderful on this site and so caring and supportive. Good luck to you on Monday you will do great. God Bless Hugs KimC

Jami, Good luck on Monday. I will pray for a smooth and uneventful surgery. You have so many wonderful things to look forward to! Congratulations on your engagement and for making a wise decision for a healthy, happy life. God Bless! Tina

Hi Jami, Wow, your surgery date is tomorrow! I will be praying for you all day! Diane here. I grew up in Groton CT. My family lives all over CT. I know how cruel people can be, where ever you live. Now I live in NC. My surgery is coming up soon. I go to register at the hospital next Monday, March 26, at which time I will receive an actual date. Please keep us posted how you are doing. What hospital are you going to be in? Where do you live in CT? If you don't mind my asking. Blessings, Diane