Its been awhile

Hi everyone sorry I havent posted in a long time but one my computer was being a pain and two I have just been real tired and weak since surgery, but I am now 2 weeks and 3 days out and down 13 lbs I dont see it or feel it yet but everyone I know says they see it in my face, well hopefully soon I will see it, I have also been a little depressed and miserable but i know keep my head up and look to the future of how healthy I am gonna be I tell my self taht everyday this will all be worth it in the end, but untill then I am just trying to keep busy and away from the kitchen. But like always Thank you to everyone for the suport and help through this all. Hugs and kisses and all my love April

April~ By far, that first month is the toughest. So many changes. Honestly nobody can prepare us for the extent of the changes that occur. And then there is the physical recovery from having major surgery. And then there is the saying goodbye to food as we have known it in the past. It is almost like saying goodbye to an old, yet familiar abusive lover. It was for me anyway. So be really gentle with yourself kiddo. You will make it through this tough time. I cried off and on for the first month. Check out couple of sites. Perhaps they will help. http://www.livingafterwls.com/ some really helpful stuff on this site. http://www.consciouseating.com/ check out the OASIS to the right on the home page. Some suggestions... Make sure you are getting enough hydration. And get to a support group meeting if possible. Connecting with others in your surgeon's group helps. And I am just only seeing the difference in my body almost 2 years post op. One day you will walk by a store and look in the window and say, "hey, who is that lovely woman?" "hey wait, that's me!" Be well. Towanda

Hey there April, Great to see you back on the boards kiddo, your doing great so far. Take it slow and you will get through this, take it from me. I am an expert on depression and being miserable. We are here for you through this and your going to do great I promise you that. Take care of yourself and keep up the good work. See you on the 24th. Hugs KimC

Hi April, man,it must run in the family,everyone noticed my face losing first too..Lol..13 lbs in 2 weeks is great,dont you worry,you will be a winner in the long run,that runs in the family too...Lol...See you at the picnic,,love you very much,,dont be depressed,you have a whole healthy life to look forward too,,love , aunt cyndee