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Topic: RE: Help!!!!!! I need an angel
I'm new to these boards and don't know what an Angel does. I had lap RNY on 10/30/07 so I'm only 9 weeks out. If I can help you in any way I'd be glad to. Send me a message.
Topic: Newbie here
Hi, I'm new here. Just a quick background on me... My whole life I have struggled with obesity. The only thing that has ever kept it under control was running... and much to my horror, I shattered my ankle in 1995, thus ending my running career. The weight slowly started to pack on, and by 2000 I was officially labeled as obese with PCOS/Insulin Resistance.
In 2002 I had my first child... a girl... and I gained 30 pounds with that pregnancy. I had severe gestational diabetes, and was on daily insulin injections.
I lost about 20 of those pounds in the first year after her birth, and on her first birthday, we found out that we were expecting our second child.
Through my son's pregnancy, I gained an additional 40 pounds, had even worse gest. diabetes, and ended up delivering a 10 pound baby.
Despite doing Atkins and later, Weigh****chers, I have been unable to keep off any siginificant amount of weight, and in 2005, the bottom dropped out of my life- my then 14 month old son had a severe choking accident in daycare and nearly died. He spent 3 months in the ICU, and is now severely brain injured. True to form, I initially stopped eating (lost 25 pounds in those 3 months), and then turned to food for comfort.
Flash forward to 2007. I'm 5'1 and weigh 225-ish pounds. My BMI is >42. My hips hurt all of the time. I can sleep 15 hours a day and still be exhausted. My back hurts. My asthma is out of control. Due to too much estrogen, I'm developing polyps. I feel like I'm 100, and I'm only 33.
I have to do something, I feel like I'm dying. My kids deserve better. My husband deserves better. And most importantly, *I* deserve better. I look forward to getting to know you all.
Topic: x-post i got my date!!
It is going to be Jan 29th, at 7:30am!! with Doctor Chae!!! @ St Joes
I was not expecting a date tell mid-feb to mid-march.
That had to be the best phone call ever in my life... I could seriously do 100 cartwheels right now...
a new year, a new me!!!!!!!
I was not expecting a date tell mid-feb to mid-march.
That had to be the best phone call ever in my life... I could seriously do 100 cartwheels right now...
a new year, a new me!!!!!!!
Topic: Newbie here!
Hey all!
I am new to the boards but since I live in a rural area, I really need a source of support! My surgery date is January 7th in Colorado Springs. I am so excited I can't stand it!
I would love to hear everyone's stories of their Lapband surgeries!
Topic: RE: Help!!!!!! I need an angel
Hi, Viv!
I too am having surgery on the 7th!!! Are you excited or scared? I am more excited than scared at this point!
I don't know if I can be your angel since I am having surgery the same day? But I am definitely going to follow up on you!
Topic: RE: Help
Thanks for answering back. I have been getting use to this site. How long ago did you have surgery? Did you have the band or bypass? I am going for the full bypass. How do you feel now?
Topic: Help!!!!!! I need an angel
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!!!!!!!!
I am having surgery on Jan 7 and I could really use an angel.... anyone??????
Thanks
Viv
Topic: RE: Rose Medical Center info?
i don't think that rose is a center of excellence unless they just got it. you might go to psl because they are for sure.
Topic: RE: Anyone in Thornton or nearby? My date is on SATURDAY!!
Hi there. I actually had surgery RXY almost 5 years ago. I truly, truly love my new life! I wished I would have done it sooner. It's amazing how differently people treat you and how differently you start feeling about yourself.
Men can usually "ignore"a fat lady if he doesnt have to be with her and be "semi" nice to a fat lady... the worst are the women... and it was and has been really nice to see how nice women can be! I have made a conscious decision never to treat an overweight person badly EVER! Despite their being "used" to being ignored/invisible... and reject or at least resist a person being nice to them... I will never make anyone feel unconfortable.
Every part of my life has changed! Well, 99.9% of it. I am still married to the same man... who wasn't all that supportive of me having the surgery (and then a TT)...but, he has been wonderful to me since we went on our first date (when I was skinny), then as the years went by and I got fatter and fatter...and now with me again.. he's wonderful! but, every other part of my life has changed! I have found out who my REAL friends are!!!
God Bless...
Laxi
Topic: RE: Kaiser co-payment HELP!
Kaiser doesn't apply your max out of pocket to WLS, With my plan I had to pay 30% of the total and, no one seems to know exactly how much that is....I had to pay $2700 for the hospital (upfront or set up payments with them) I still have to get a bill from Dr. Shae and the anesthesiologist. I was told in the "Surgery Connections" class it will probably be $5-6,000. For Gastric probably $7000 to $10,000 @30% co-pay. Some lucky people have just their hospital co-pay. I wish I would've known what company has the great insurance. If you work for Qwest they have an exclusion in their health insurance that states WLS is an exclusion EVEN if medically necessary. (JERKS) I changed from United Health to Kaiser so I'd have a chance to get the surgery. (Kaiser will do it anyway because they are interested in your health, we probably wouldn't have to pay as much to Kaiser if Qwest would've coughed up the extra $ for the benefit) Call the Kaiser weight program in your area and ask them, you may be one of the lucky ones! (Plus you could set up payments with the Dr.)