why did our board become boring....

Hey all, Where is everyone? I try to check the board a couple of times a day and there is never anything new. What happened to us? Well I hope that everyone is having a great time!! Much Love, Kris

I noticed that too. Nothing new goin on I guess. Its just the same old stuff with me for sure.. Hey did you go to the support group meeting?? And How was it, if so. ??

hey im sorta new i always check the board then go to the main chat room! but i post stuff and get no reply at times but hope everyone is well and god bless to all heather

Hey far be it for me to stick my neck out, but here it goes, a while back when i was just lurking there was a big fight over what others thought was appropriate for this board and weather it should be all wls related, and all the hipocracy of others... Now i didnt come soon enough to get to see the juicy stuff.. But it seems to me that we all feel we can say anything we want and we should, no one here can control our feelings or words... So i dont post a lot of what i wish we could talk about, because of fear of getting a bunch of whiiiinnerrs threatening to leave and getting thier feelings hurt (want some cheese with that whine) So i hang out on other sites where people are a little more forthcoming. I want to know when you started feeling confertable with sex again...why im not becoming addicted to excersize it sucks (but i do it). Why is there an odor in my house that makes me gag, but only i can smell it, And how come Susie from Dr. Chae`s cant call me back? has the insurance already paid up and im nonexistant now? Ok im done,,,,on to the castigation......... Love always Debbi

Hi all, I guess I missed the arugment as well. But I think that this board should be open to everyone, and no questions is stupid except for the unasked questions. It should not matter if a question has been asked a million times or never, everyone should feel like this is a safe place for them to ask questions and not be judged. We all remember what it was like to be judged before we had our surgeries, and we didnt like it. I personaly would like to ask everyone to come back and ask questions, cause I have some as well. I would like to know why I have no interest in being intimate with my hubby, why I have a metal taste in my mouth that will not go away no matter how many time I brush my teeth and use listerine, and why I can drink 104 oz a day and only go to the restroom 2 times a day. Why do I feel so emotional all the time and can cry if someone blinks at me or smiles at me. I hope that everyone can put the past behind us and move foward to the bright future that lies before each and everyone of us. Much Love, Kris

amen to the pee thing, where is all tha****er in my body? i want to know... and amen to that intimate thing am i afraid he will poke at my innards? god some-one answer me.................. Love Deb

amen, to you and the pee thing. And the intimate thing, I still am sore in places and i don't want him to make me even more sore. I will give in when I feel the time is right, I dont want this to be a pressure thing. Does anyone agree or disagree? It's been a L-O-N-G time and I just want to savor the moment and now I would be like ok, I'm done now let me get some rest. And I dont feel really sexy right now anyways. anywhoo if you have any suggestions about either of these please let us know, it would help us out tons!! Much Love, Kris

Ok. THe metal taste thing, I heard is the state of ketosis.. bad tast in your mouth, your body is burning fat rapidly. I can't get into exercising either. I wish I could. And the sex thing.. Cant get enough lately, I think I might kill my husband. I can move in ways I never could before, that is only in the past few weeks.. At first , I was like touch me and I will kill you. Also, not to get too graphic but, When you are freshly pre op, the ****** itself KILLS your sore stomache muscles ... LOL

Thanks!! Kori, those are the answers that I want to know. I will just get hubby a few magazines and let him have the shower for a few hours!! hehehehehehe I just cant handle that right now. Hope you are feeling better!! Much love, Kris

What about that smell, cant you smell that smell? Hey thats a song!!!!!!!!MIchelle co calls it her anastesia (sp) brain. I have lysoled the whole house and almost the cat... I`m going nuts... As for sex im all about my sleep Love Deb