Hi I am new to the this my surgery date is set for 10/2

 Hey everyone.  I just got on here.  My date is set for 10/2.  The Rou nY.  How do you go about telling friends and family about  choosing this road?  How have you dealt with negative comments?

Jazae, congrats on getting your date set!  Good for you!  It will be an exciting time in your life. 
As far as family and friends......my decision was to talk to my family about this, letting them know it was a way to help me to become healthier.  I no longer have diabetes, high blood pressure, plus my breathing is much easier since the surgery.  As far as "friends", I only told those that are closest to me. 
It's your choice and it's a personal choice to everyone.

Pat A

Hi jazae
     I'm new here too, but as for your question I had my RNY/LAP on 8/12/08 and would do it all over again. As for telling your friends if they care for you..then they will be happy for you. I wanted to get rid of my diabetes and my high Cholesterol so I pretty much did not care what people and family thought.  I think everyone just would like you to be healthy..so go for it and best wishes on your future surgery.  See you on the loser's bench....

suzette50