I am scared

I am getting so nervous. My surgery is scheduled for March 4 or 11th gotta call tomorrow lol. Nonetheless, I am scared. What if I have complications? What if I freak out when I experience dumping? What if I think it's dumping and it isn't? What if I do not lose weight cuz my sleeve was not done properly? What if I have a bout of depression? What if I look old after surgery? That is one of my biggest fears. Some women look much older. What if I ….I am just straight out scared. What if my head looks bigger after surgery? lol I know people who's head appears bigger after surgery. I just do not want to look like I had the surgery other than the weight loss. HELP ME! Anxiety is truly kicking in

Not sure if you had your surgery yet or not.  If so how did it go?  Did you hav eany complications?  Im having mine on May 7th and am having some fears but also very excited.  I wanted to comment on your remark about people looking older after surgery.  I honestly feel that they look so much younger, happier and healthier.  Would love to hear from you and see how it all went.  Wishing you all the best in achieving your wls goals.

PJ 

How did your surgery go and which one did you do?

Hi I guess by now all of you had your surgery done already. I have mine on October 26th. I'm freaking out. i as well am scared of the dumping syndrome how bad is it? with what foods does that cause and in how much quantity? Is it for just a little taste or a big bite? I see all these youtube videos of dumping that I'm really scared. I'm having the roux y bypass. How is my life going to be after the surgery? I think it's just typical jitters that we all have before a surgery but nonetheless any info from experiences helps.