Nor Cal?
You know ladies some people are just jealous. I was having problems with a friend who was jealous and another friend told me it really wasn't much of a friendship if it depends on you being over weight is it. That is so true. Let go of it and find real friends who are positive and encouraging. You really don't need people in your life that just want to bring you down. OK that is enough from "Dear Abby" today.