Between a rock and a hard place ~ UGH ~ Life!!!!!

anewbecboo
on 10/14/08 3:00 pm - Ellensburg, WA

So, since you have all been following the job saga, here is the latest...
The Gaming Commission needs a list of the creditors being included in my bankruptcy. So, I had a meeting with my paralegal yesterday and it didn't help much with that. So I called the GC lady and asked if a list of creditors from me on their letterhead would be enough. "NO, it has to be official from them. " So, I call the law firm back and a lady calls me and says they can't do that until we actually file, which costs $300. Well, I don't have $300 till I start working! I told her I can't get that money till I have a job, but can't get that job without the list. She said "sorry!"
UGGGGGHHHHHHHH!!!!!

and this is what I did

!!!
Why does life have to be so fking hard????

So, I left a message with my lawyer this time to see if there is ANYTHING they can do to help me. I already wasted the ink and paper to print out all 6 of our credit reports, so can they at least go through it with me and type up an official list on their letterhead???? There has to be something they can do to help me get this job so I can get this BK over with!!!!

Then my dumbass hubby says "what if you just tell VV that we are going to wait on the BK and see if they will hire you anyway!" Is he for real???? no BK, no job at VV, duh!!!!! (he doesn't think we should do the BK anyway). Then he asked if our 19 year old daughter could lend us the money!!! HELLO, she doesn't make enough and it isn't her issue!!! UGH, sometimes he is sooooo dumb!!!!!

Ok, thanks for letting me vent. I feel a little better now! I will keep you posted. PLEASE keep me in your prayers for this to turn out ok in the end! I NEED this job like LAST week!!!!

love and bigg huggs, Becky

So, I left a messge

Surgery was RNY 5/21/07...I can be found on Facebook: anewbecboo or Becky Reddick

(deactivated member)
on 10/14/08 3:10 pm, edited 10/14/08 3:25 pm - So. Cal, CA

RNY on 07/17/08

Becky,
No words of wisdom here, but wanted to give you a BIG cyber hug. Sorry you are having such a hard time with all of this. Sometimes, it seems like we are damned if we do and damned if we don't. I am so sorry!

Lola

anewbecboo
on 10/14/08 3:19 pm - Ellensburg, WA

RNY on 05/21/07

Thanks for the hug sweetie, I really needed it!!! I think the last phrase you used is the story of my life usually!!! lol

Surgery was RNY 5/21/07...I can be found on Facebook: anewbecboo or Becky Reddick

jilliecats
on 10/14/08 3:12 pm

RNY on 01/28/04

Hi Sweetie!

My advice to you is to stop asking the paralegal. She seems to be the type that cannot think outside of the box and does not understand the importance. They can do anything they want, but sounds as if she is not the brightest star in the sky!

If the office has an office manager, go through them. Don't aske to talk straight to the attorney because the attorney will probably just give you lip service and that is it. If the office manager is any food, she will follow it through. In most offices, it is the manager who keeps everything afloat.

Also, be persistant, but nice at the same time. If you are inclined to baking, a batch of cookies can also help you out. It has worked for me many, many times.

Good luck and keep on trying.

xo xo xo

Jilliecats

anewbecboo
on 10/14/08 3:28 pm - Ellensburg, WA

RNY on 05/21/07

Hiya honey!!! It is sooo good to see you on the boards!!! I've been meaning to PM you, but keep forgetting! lol
The lady I talked to today wasn't even my paralegal and she didn't seem very bright at all. I ended my convo with her by saying "thanks for nothing"
The message I left tonight was my lawyers voicemail and I believe he is the supervising lawyer for BK. Hopefully he will be more willing to help me out! Hmmm, a batch of cookies huh, I might have to try that!!! If they let me come in to help me, I will bring something for them!!! thanks for the suggestion!
hope all is well with you honey!!! it's so good to see you, miss you! bigg huggs and love to you!!!!

Surgery was RNY 5/21/07...I can be found on Facebook: anewbecboo or Becky Reddick

(deactivated member)
on 10/14/08 11:57 pm - Palmdale, CA

RNY on 11/15/04

Jillie,
Call me at my office today. 661-723-7833
Liz

anewbecboo
on 10/15/08 1:11 am - Ellensburg, WA

RNY on 05/21/07

Thanks for the number Liz!!! hee hee

bigg huggs to you sweetie!!

Surgery was RNY 5/21/07...I can be found on Facebook: anewbecboo or Becky Reddick

lauren_marie
on 10/14/08 4:14 pm - Clovis, CA

RNY on 05/02/08

Becky, I don't understand ... If you haven't even filed yet, then why can't they just use your credit reports and billing statements from any creditors who might not be listed on your credit reports? Something about that doesn't sit well with me ... Did you question them about that?

*HUGS*

I'm sorry this is so difficult for you ... They better give you this job after all this trouble!

In remembrance of my mom, for always and forever ... Patricia Alice Harkey, 04/19/56-02/10/08 ... I love and miss you every moment of every day, Patty Cake.

anewbecboo
on 10/14/08 4:28 pm - Ellensburg, WA

RNY on 05/21/07

It just has to be an official list from the lawyers so they know that I'm adding everything to the BK. I don't know why the law firm is being so difficult!!
The Gaming Commission is tough. If I were trying to get a "key" job that involves handling money or chips, they wouldn't hire me because of my credit issues. It's only because of the position I am applying for that they can even work with me. Everybody that works at a casino, no matter what position, has to go through all of this!!!
I'm sure I have the job, it's just taking so long and I needed the money yesterday!!! thanks for the prayers sweetie!!!

Surgery was RNY 5/21/07...I can be found on Facebook: anewbecboo or Becky Reddick

Katt M.
on 10/14/08 4:20 pm - Fontana, CA

RNY on 04/29/08

Awwww hunni, I'm so sorry you're going through all of this BS. It's kinda like an prspective telling you didn't get a jobbecause you have no experience, but you can't get experience unless you get hired. Hopefully your attorney can help you. And men can be soooo dense! Sorry about that too. Sending love & hugs darlin'.

~Katt~ Obesity Help Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/abetterclassoflosers/
Sexy isn't a look, it's a state of mind. ~Me~
How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours. ~Dr. Wayne Dyer~

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