Dating WOW Moment

Monica P.
on 6/11/08 2:21 am - Long Beach, CA
RNY on 07/19/07 with

I've been dating around for a while. Mostly I just have lots of coffee dates, and very few 2nd dates. (Good men are hard to find!) 

I meet almost everyone from online dating sites and last night I met someone for the first time.  I met him on a site for BBWs (Big Beautiful Women....not a term I care for, but that's a whole other story)

He was very nice and gave me the most unusual compliment. "I'm surprised that you're even on that site."

"What do you mean?"

"Well most of the women are much bigger than you, you're in very good shape."

 

 

HA!!!!!!   Maybe I should take down my profile and move to another site....

Now if you are going to win any battle you have to do one thing. You have to make the mind run the body. Never let the body tell the mind what to do. The body will always give up. It is always tired in the morning, noon, and night. But the body is never tired if the mind is not tired."

- George S. Patton, U.S. Army General, 1912 Olympian

ShellsBells
on 6/11/08 2:23 am - Vallejo, CA
Rock on! That is awesome, what a beautiful compliment and he didn't even know it!

LOL


Shells
Monica P.
on 6/11/08 4:13 am - Long Beach, CA
RNY on 07/19/07 with
It never occured to me that I would not be considered a "BBW" anymore. How weird is that?!?!?!
Now if you are going to win any battle you have to do one thing. You have to make the mind run the body. Never let the body tell the mind what to do. The body will always give up. It is always tired in the morning, noon, and night. But the body is never tired if the mind is not tired."

- George S. Patton, U.S. Army General, 1912 Olympian

Jaime C.
on 6/11/08 2:39 am - Pacific Grove, CA
RNY on 08/03/07 with

That is great Monica. Just wait... if you stay on there the men won't like you because you are to skinny. You are damned if you do and damned if you aren't. LOL  Some guy told me that I was to skinny and that he doesn't usually like "skinny girls."  I just about died. Me, skinny?

I am in the same boat with my coffee dates and yes, a good man is so hard to find these days. Just remember don't settle for anything less then perfect because you deserve the best girl. Just have fun "shopping."  Hugs, Jaime

Jaime C.

 

Monica P.
on 6/11/08 2:44 am - Long Beach, CA
RNY on 07/19/07 with

Doesn't it feel like you're going on job interviews after a while?? Sometimes I think I should type up my dating resume and just conduct the coffee date like it's an interview.

 

"So, where do you see yourself in five years?"

"What are your greatest strengths/weakensses in a relationship?"

"Can I see some references from your former girlfriends?"

Now if you are going to win any battle you have to do one thing. You have to make the mind run the body. Never let the body tell the mind what to do. The body will always give up. It is always tired in the morning, noon, and night. But the body is never tired if the mind is not tired."

- George S. Patton, U.S. Army General, 1912 Olympian

Jaime C.
on 6/11/08 2:54 am - Pacific Grove, CA
RNY on 08/03/07 with

Yea and make sure he fills out the application completely and legibly. LOL  Yes, it's like a dang interview.

Those are great questions girl... I am more like

What kind of job you got? What type of retirement benefits do you have? What kind of car is that?

Ha ha now that is funny.

Jaime C.

 

taz51501
on 6/11/08 4:00 am - Central Coast, CA
Great Compliment (in a round about sort of way) LOL I am SOOOOOOO glad I am happily married and not trying to date. EWE. Sue

    
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Monica P.
on 6/11/08 4:12 am - Long Beach, CA
RNY on 07/19/07 with
How cute! I love to see happily married folks....  Does your husband have a single brother? ;)
Now if you are going to win any battle you have to do one thing. You have to make the mind run the body. Never let the body tell the mind what to do. The body will always give up. It is always tired in the morning, noon, and night. But the body is never tired if the mind is not tired."

- George S. Patton, U.S. Army General, 1912 Olympian

taz51501
on 6/11/08 4:20 am - Central Coast, CA
LOL Yes as a matter of fact he does. The problem is, I wouldn't wish him on anyone! He's the exact opposite of my hubby. I'll keep my eyes open for you though.

    
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puddin2day
on 6/11/08 5:50 am - Los Angeles, CA
Hey Monica, I am glad that you are dating.  Nice compliment!    I need to do something myself.   Thinking about eHarmony. Kim
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