can 3/4 of a pot of coffee thru out the whole day make

 your heart palpitate and hear your heart in your ears and make you feel weird. you can feel you your blood presure rise. well that's what's going on with my hubby and it's making me crazy along with all my problems.  it's never happened to him before so i was just wonderinf if it could be doing it now. He's the love of my life going on 39 years and i don't know wHat i woud do with out him. any advice for me. i have been sick again for the last few days and don't need this now. And of course either does he,  i can't force him to see a doc. unless he is passed out of the floor. he is 58 years old and works cicles around men that are 20 years old. but it's starting to get to him. he is suppose to be a computer programmer and he ends up doing all the grunt work thtat the29 year old should be doing  He hA Alway given 210% of him self into his work, even after working for McDonnell Dpiglas Hellicopters fpr 21 years and have them just move out of Californiea........... those wheels are heavy the ones the fit in side the tires on SUVs and the fancy ones and hummers and such.   .. He has always been a very hard worked since he was sixteen years old. Now tell me if I am over worring or need to figure out a way to get him to go to see a dr. i know I can count on you guys for all kinds of ideas/ thanks in ad vance

Jodi my friend, I think it's time Dave gave in and went to the doctor. He wants to work about 20 years doesn't he? he needs to get checked up....tell him no if's, no but's or any other excuse...I'll bring my team of culprits down with me and drag him there.... Seriously, get him in to the doc...it may be just minor, but the doc is the one that can tell....

 thank you Darlene. I will read this to him work for word and tell him your not kidding. lol thank you so much my friend.

Oh Jodi...........I am so sorry honey!  You have so much going on right now.  I would ask him to go see the doctor for  a check up, what will that hurt?  I just learned myself how you think something is so small can turn into something bigger.  Sit him down and tell him how you are feeling, I think he will understand.  Tell him that you need him, and love him and he needs to do this for himself as well. We have fear of the unknown........once we know what we are dealing with you can feel better and take care of it.  And worrying is not helping out your situation either....  I'm sure once you tell him how you feel you can get him to go to the Doctors.  You two are soul mates!  I can tell just how proud and in love with yuor husband you are, and that is just Awesome!!! Love & Hugs, Jeni Call me if you need to talk ok?    XO

thank you dear friend., I even threathned to stop taking my meds. if he won't take his then i won't take mine. he is suppose to be on an antinflamatory for colon cancer as a prevenative measure along with one asprin a day and protonix. well he takes all but the anti aflamatory as it cost $80 co pay.. welll mine is $100 so I told him I would stop mine and he can take his';'; oh no no no... what the heck differecne does it make.. if he's not hear for me then there is no sense for me to be here either. i marrie him when i was 16 and i can't live with out him. I TOLD HIM THAT BUT HE ALWAYS SAYS IT WILL BE OK. I'M A BAD PENNY AND I WILL ALWAYS TURN UP. OMG WHAT THE HECK WILL I DO WITH OUT HIM. I DON'T EVEN WANT TO KNOW..... HE IS MY SOUL MATE MY LIFE MY LOVE MY BEST FRIEND. THOSE ARE HARD TO FIND. THANKS FOR ALL YOUR ADVICE. I HAVE TO GO BLOW MY NOSE AND WASH MY FACE. HAVE  A BEAUTIFUL EVENNG. LOVE YA ALL

Hi Sweety, I just want you to know that I am here if you want to talk ok? Please take your meds and do what your doc says, Promise me you will. I'm here girlfriend! Love yu, Jeni

Jen Your a living doll. I sure hope I didn't upset you yesterday. Yesterday was your big day and all eyes should have been on you and your health. I think the world of you kiddo. Don't you ever worry about me. I'm so sorry about the phone call as the phone was in my room and I forgot complelety about it after trying to make sure hubby got off to work ok. Thank you for being here for me my friend,.   have a wonderful day and try and stay cool, it's already to warm for me. And Yes I am trying to remember all my meds.   Take care of yourself my friend.

Awww Jodi!  ((((HUGS))) men are SO STINKIN' STUBBORN!!! grrrrr..... I hope he HEARS what you are saying to him and gets himself a check up.  What's the worse that can happen....? The doc can say, okay- cut down on the coffee! BIG WHOOP!  If he loves you as much as you love him (which I am SURE he does!), then there should be NO DOUBT in his mind that he should get into the doc! Best wishes to you and yours!

VICKY THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR SUPPORT AND ENCOURAGENMENT. BEING TOGETHER FOR SO MANY YEARAS I NEVER THOUGHT IT WOULD BE MY TURN TO HAVE TO PUSH HIM TO THE DR. HE KEEPS REMEMBERING HIS FATHERS PASSING AND HE SAYS HE TAKES AFTER HIS MOM. WELL I TOLD HIM I WANT HIM TO LIVE LONGER THEN HIS 80'S I HOPE YOUR RIGHT. I WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO LIVE WITH OUT HIM. THANK YOU FOR YOUR IMPUT. I AM PUTTING THESE ALL TOGETHER AND GIVING THEM TO HIM TO READ, IN HOPES THAT IT MAKES A DIFFERENCE. 39 YEARS IS A LONG TIME TO BE WITH SOMEONE NOT TO WORRY AND I AM HOPING THAT IT'S 39 + MORE TO COME, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP. HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY MUCH LOVE TO YOU VICKI.