6 years ago...

~~Stacie~~
on 3/20/08 1:48 am - the bottom of a long ass state, CA

6 years ago

I had Gastric Bypass Surgery (RNY).  There were a lot less people having the surgery back then, and way more unsuccessful people than I care to think about.

Today, a lot of society’s attitudes (as well as insurance companies and health care providers) have changed in regards to the acceptability of this surgery.

 

This forum for people researching GBS is a god-send.  The amount of information available on the procedures and being successful is so much greater these days.

 

I can’t believe that 6 years has passed since that morning that I was scared to death I was going to die... I have lost so much... a miserable life, a miserable marriage, a fear of dying from heart disease, and gained an entirely new life.

 

I didn’t disappear because of failure... I disappeared because of success!!

 

Today- SIX years after having surgery, I am healthier than ever... am I at my lightest?? Sadly, NO! But I am within 20 pounds of that. I have still lost and kept off over 90 pounds. I have learned to have a healthier attitude with food... I said healthier, not perfect.

I am happy. Not skinny, but happy!

 

Gastric Bypass did not give me a free ride to a less obese life. It’s a struggle and a lot of times I make the wrong choices, but I am still successful. I am happy. I have a life. I am active. I HAVE A LIFE!!

 

To those of you in the early walk, Congratulations, learn now what it will take for long term success. To those of you who are walking the long term path, Congratulations on your strength, fortitude and attitude. If you are still around here, you have found a way to make GBS work for you and a successful part of your life forever.

 

Stacie

 

“Remember: Life is best lived one moment at a time

~~Stacie~~
WLS is not a magic bullet, it is a daily choice of good decisions for life long health! What do you choose to do today?
Cindy D.
on 3/20/08 1:56 am - Fullerton, CA
RNY on 05/05/05 with
You are a true SUCCESS at life.  You are an inspiration to me in so many different ways.  I think you are beautiful both inside and out.   Congrats! on 6 learning and loving filled years!  Many happy more to come xoxo Cindy
~~Stacie~~
on 3/20/08 2:08 am - the bottom of a long ass state, CA
Thank you : )
~~Stacie~~
WLS is not a magic bullet, it is a daily choice of good decisions for life long health! What do you choose to do today?
Gus H.
on 3/20/08 2:19 am, edited 3/20/08 2:19 am - La Puente, CA
WOW...Congratulations on your anniversary. You sure have inspired me through my journey and made a strong impact when you visited me at the hospital...thanks You've supported many folks and remember that you are a true success!
Darlene
on 3/20/08 2:23 am
Congrats to you Stacie....I miss you around here and so many other sucessful people from back in the day. You go girl!!!!!
Women are angels.
...and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick.

We are flexible.

Darlene
 


Ms Shell
on 3/20/08 2:25 am - Hawthorne, CA
So true...life IS best live ONE moment at a time.  Congratulations on 6 years of those moments!  Continued successs. Ms Shell

"WLS is only for people who are ready to move past the "diet" mentality" ~Alison Brown
"WLS is not a Do-Over (repeat same mistakes = get a similar outcome.)  It is a Do-BETTER (make lifestyle changes you can continue forever.)" ~ Michele Vicara aka Eggface

ShellsBells
on 3/20/08 2:28 am - Vallejo, CA
Congratulations!


Shells
Jenn A.
on 3/20/08 2:35 am - Visalia, CA
Happy Re Birthday Stacie.

 

Jenn  ~ Obesity Help Support Group Coach~
    
**In Memory of My Son PFC Jeffrey A. Avery KIA Iraq 4/23/07 **
 
If you can't stand behind our Troops feel free to stand in front of them!

 

 

 

 

 

cabin111
on 3/20/08 3:10 am
Very well said.  We wonder where different people are "On the boards" now?  I compare it to a teenager spreading their wings.  They test the water...find they are ok...then venture out more.  So many of the WLS people are just out there living life!!  Like a teenager coming back to visit their grandparents (OH).  The teenager thanks the grandparents for their support and being there through their process...But they now see the world and are ready to explore life.  Thanks for the visit.  Just as the grandparent's face lights up when the grandchild comes to see them...Ours light up for you.  Brian
christine mats
on 3/20/08 3:28 am - oceanside, CA
Happy Surgiversary Stacie miss you much Hope to see you again soon. much love, *Christine*
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