X-post: Angry, frustrated, ready to quit!

So, I went back for my bmi check on Friday after drinking a TON of water, with the kids and with the flu, just so I could get hte bmi of 40.7 on the books to resubmit to insurance with the sleep apnea report for the studies I did.  I ONLY did the studies to get hte insurance approval in the first place.  So, the insurance gal calls this morning and says that she can't resubmit to hte insurance for approval until I come in and meet with the doctor AGAIN for a re-evaluation so he can redictate the notes to include the higher bmi and the sleep apnea.  Why the hell did I come in for the weight check when I was sick and everything, if I'm going to have to weigh again when they can get me in?  AND, now this means waiting for another appointment with him which will be weeks from now!  I'm just so sick of this mess! They knowthe system.  Why do they make you jump through hoops and then make you start over again?!?  I'm ready to try a different doctor or just give up all together.  There's a Dr. Juarez and a Dr. Felix in Fresno I could try.  I know there are docs in Visalia who are good, and that's just a 35 minute drive for me.  I just want to get in with one who will get me in quickly and not continue putting things off or adding to the requirements.  I've done EVERYTHING....passed EVERYTHING...and now I have to start back at the consult phase!?!  I'm so angry and depressed!

You have probably heard this before, but all of this jumping through hoops will pay off in the long run. I am sure there are a lot of us who have had similiar stories- some even had to jump through hoops for 2 years! Hang in there and just do as they say. It will pay off in the long run and is worth it. I know it sucks and it gets frustrating, but don't quit- just do as they say and it will be over in no time. Please keep us posted and keep your head up. It can only get better. Hugs, Jaime

Hang in there Michelle, I know it gets FRUSTRATING. What surgeon are using? Anyway, just like Jaime said, sometimes it ends up being worth the hassle. Please don't give up. You are worth it! It's your life and you deserve to be healthy. Try not to let the bumps in the road get you down. Sue

I know it is frustrating for you but don't give up. If you wait for your next appointment with this doctor you do not have to totally start over where is by switching docs you do and the wait can be even longer. Just remember you are not the first to have to go through these types of problems. Just remember to keep coming to the site for support. The only doc here in Visalia only does lap bands. I have meet with her and she is great. I also like Felix, but I have not personally met Juarez so I can't tell you what he is like only that those I know who had him liked him.

Hijack!  I just wanted to say hello to you and I hope you have a GREAT day today!  Thank you for being you!  We need more people like you around. XO XO XO Jillie

Hang in there.  You can do this Michelle.  Also when you go in...layer and ummm well I'll send you a PM

Don't give up. It can be a long frustrating process but it is so worth it. Lisa

First off Michelle, you have ONE of the BEST surgeons in California.  He is worth the wait.  He ranks up in the top of the list for California Bariatric Surgeons!  He and his partner have done over 4000 surgeries since 1996 with less than a 15 percent complication rate.  Dr. Higa saved my life.  I too had to wait.  Things happen.  My surgery was cancelled twice...and I hated the wait...but it was worth it to me.  I know that I had/have a very accomplished surgeon with a very great track record.  That is ALL that mattered to me.  I hear Felix is good...but he has a $950 out of pocket fee that you have to pay BEFORE surgery.   I hope you change your mind and stay with Dr. Higa.  Like jenn said...you will have to start ALL OVER again if you switch docs.  You have to do all THEIR requirements BEFORE they will submit the paperwork for you.  Sucks...but it is worth waiting.  It's in God's hands really.  Go with the flow.  It WILL happen!!!   Cheri

You are so right!  Thanks for the kick in the butt.  I really needed it.  I know I was overreacting.  I just got so frustrated! It IS in God's hands, and I need to sit back and know that this is all for a reason.  Thanks for all of the great encouragement!  I'll settle down and take my medicine now.  LOL!  :)Michelle