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Monger31
on 6/11/10 8:07 am - North Little Rock, AR
Topic: RE: Tonight's Support Group Meeting
I also really enjoyed hearing others' experiences and insights.  I changed my surgery to bypass as well since I can't deny this serious sweet tooth I have.  It would be a shame to spend all of this out of pocket expense to just blow it down the road because I was in denial about the type of surgery I need!  I'm really nervous and scared and excited all in one.  Can you also feel like grieving too?  Thanks to everyone for letting me pick your brains!
browneyedgirl11
on 6/10/10 3:46 pm
Topic: Tonight's Support Group Meeting
I just wanted to thank everyone for coming to the support group tonight!  I enjoyed meeting several of you all. Also, I found it so very helpful and am very thankful for people sharing their experiences and stories.  It's such a helpful forum when you really want the truth and facts around WLS! 

I started this journey so embarrassed about me having to turn to WLS as an option and really didn't want to talk to anyone about it.  I've learned over these last couple of months that talking about it and reaching out for support has been so helpful in many ways.  Mainly, one that has led to me picking gastric bypass as best surgery option for me and finding a surgeon and surgeons that I can really trust.  It's still a little scary but very excited for the journey ahead.   
browneyedgirl11
on 6/9/10 3:20 pm
Topic: RE: help
I agree with Susan!!!  Neither one of those things sounds right!! Call your doc!  Hope everything is ok though!
browneyedgirl11
on 6/9/10 3:17 pm
Topic: RE: Dr. Wellborn ve Dr. Baker

Thanks for the feedback!!  Since this post, I canceled my surgery date with Dr. Wellborn and decided to check into other surgeons.  Just too many red flags waving at me once I started asking, if you know what I mean!  I have since went to seminars with Dr. Baker and Dr. Gibbs.  I liked both very much and actually am considering and actually thinking about doing the bypass!   Although that is a little scary to me, I think that might be the way to go for several reasons for me.  It's just such a hard decision.....i know I don't want to stay the way I am or get even more obese but then again is it worth the risk to see what's on the other side??  I'm at the point that I don't even recognize myself in pictures anymore....that can't honestly be me right??  Not a skinny girl but that's not what I see in the mirror. 

As far as Dr. Baker and Dr. Gibbs are concerned, feel comfortable with either.  For me it more so comes down to which one might be able to get me a surgery date in August when I have help at home with my kiddos as they are still in the "picking up" phase to take care of them daily.  Dr. Gibbs' office has not been the most helpful and not communicated much since the seminar.  So far Dr. Baker's office has been way more easier to communicate with and hopefully get things arranged.  So we'll see.....Might be time the take the plunge soon.  Just still a little scary!!

susandoeshair
on 6/8/10 10:29 am - Alexander, AR
Topic: RE: help
Honey, please call the doctor....on BOTH counts!


Susan

 

mamapeaches05
on 6/8/10 6:42 am - Hot Springs, AR
Topic: help
Hey y'all how is everyone doing? Great I hope. I am having some issues and wondering if I should be worried. My TT was on May 28th and the day before I was at the dentist and got really sick. I guess the rinse stuff did not agree with me because I had a major bowel blowout and voimting for about 45 minutes. I felt bad for the other patients in the offce. Now that's the last time I have had a bowel moevment. I have taken stool softners, laxatives and nothing has happemed other than the occasional passing of gas. Should I be worried? Now for part two. They removed the drains last thursday and the area where the tube came out of my left leg bleed quite a bit and the doctor said just but a sanaitary pad over it so you don't mess up your clothes. It finally scabbed over and stopped Sunday. Now this morning I get up and I have blood every where because the right leg is bleeding every where. Should I be worried or just get a big pad and tape it down?  Thanks for your help.
Mama Peaches Diva on a Journey
I am somebody, I have a purpose, and I'm going somewhere
Just prazin the Lord wit my feet!

Running Man

    
mamapeaches05
on 6/8/10 6:42 am - Hot Springs, AR
Topic: RE: Plastic surgery question...
Susan is right they usually want you at goal weight for two years some for at least a year. It depends on the doctor and the cir****tances
Mama Peaches Diva on a Journey
I am somebody, I have a purpose, and I'm going somewhere
Just prazin the Lord wit my feet!

Running Man

    
Addie H.
on 6/7/10 9:28 pm - Little Rock, AR
Topic: RE: Dr. Wellborn ve Dr. Baker

I was going to have the lapband under Doctor Fuller, how ever his office wanted quite a bite of money up front. So i chose to go to Doctor Baker instead who also  wanted money  up front. I got the funds for the surgery  but Dr. Baker wanted me to have a colonscopy  and endoscopy of upper GI. This would mean a longer wait for scheduling of  both exams ( not to mention cost) and finally  the wait for the surgery  itself. The reason given for the need of the exams was due to an issue with another patient who has a pre-existing medical condition that was not discovered until  the lapband procedure. So i am seeking the service of another Doctor along with  making some insurance changes,  I should be getting closer to the day of my surgery. I hope this information helped you out some.

browneyedgirl11
on 6/7/10 10:53 am
Topic: RE: Monthly Support Group meeting---Thursday!
Planning on attending my first support group meeting then!!!  I'm pre surgery so I'm hoping that it will help me to ensure me that I'm making the right decision in seeking WLS. 

Met a new colleague today that was a gastric bypass pts with multiple complications, her journey is a rather scary one. Before the surgery though she was 429 lbs, now she has 50 lbs to go!!  Initally said knowing what she knows not would not have made the decision to have WLS but as we talked she wasn't so sure of that answer. 

I feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place.  If I stay the way I am now, I won't be happy, I'll be jeapordizing my health and won't be able to live my life and if I have the surgery done and have complications that could also lead to unpleasant things as well.  URGH, it's just all so frustrating!
susandoeshair
on 6/4/10 10:35 pm - Alexander, AR
Topic: Monthly Support Group meeting---Thursday!
Don't forget!  This Thursday is the monthy support group meeting at Baptist. 6:00-7:30. Hope to see you there!

Susan

 

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