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I started this journey so embarrassed about me having to turn to WLS as an option and really didn't want to talk to anyone about it. I've learned over these last couple of months that talking about it and reaching out for support has been so helpful in many ways. Mainly, one that has led to me picking gastric bypass as best surgery option for me and finding a surgeon and surgeons that I can really trust. It's still a little scary but very excited for the journey ahead.
Thanks for the feedback!! Since this post, I canceled my surgery date with Dr. Wellborn and decided to check into other surgeons. Just too many red flags waving at me once I started asking, if you know what I mean! I have since went to seminars with Dr. Baker and Dr. Gibbs. I liked both very much and actually am considering and actually thinking about doing the bypass! Although that is a little scary to me, I think that might be the way to go for several reasons for me. It's just such a hard decision.....i know I don't want to stay the way I am or get even more obese but then again is it worth the risk to see what's on the other side?? I'm at the point that I don't even recognize myself in pictures anymore....that can't honestly be me right?? Not a skinny girl but that's not what I see in the mirror.
As far as Dr. Baker and Dr. Gibbs are concerned, feel comfortable with either. For me it more so comes down to which one might be able to get me a surgery date in August when I have help at home with my kiddos as they are still in the "picking up" phase to take care of them daily. Dr. Gibbs' office has not been the most helpful and not communicated much since the seminar. So far Dr. Baker's office has been way more easier to communicate with and hopefully get things arranged. So we'll see.....Might be time the take the plunge soon. Just still a little scary!!
I was going to have the lapband under Doctor Fuller, how ever his office wanted quite a bite of money up front. So i chose to go to Doctor Baker instead who also wanted money up front. I got the funds for the surgery but Dr. Baker wanted me to have a colonscopy and endoscopy of upper GI. This would mean a longer wait for scheduling of both exams ( not to mention cost) and finally the wait for the surgery itself. The reason given for the need of the exams was due to an issue with another patient who has a pre-existing medical condition that was not discovered until the lapband procedure. So i am seeking the service of another Doctor along with making some insurance changes, I should be getting closer to the day of my surgery. I hope this information helped you out some.
Met a new colleague today that was a gastric bypass pts with multiple complications, her journey is a rather scary one. Before the surgery though she was 429 lbs, now she has 50 lbs to go!! Initally said knowing what she knows not would not have made the decision to have WLS but as we talked she wasn't so sure of that answer.
I feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place. If I stay the way I am now, I won't be happy, I'll be jeapordizing my health and won't be able to live my life and if I have the surgery done and have complications that could also lead to unpleasant things as well. URGH, it's just all so frustrating!
Susan