what to say!

i work at a local store and since i have lost 87 lbs.i have been getting several come ons from several men, yes i am married, is it wrong to feel excited about this, any suggestions are needed.- amanda

Amanda, Shoot no girl!! I get the samething, and boy do I like it. I'm married also. and I don't plan on a divorce any time soon. I have a great! husband. But I also like the crazy attention. And that never hurts anything. I had to tell a guy the other day that I was married. He came in to get an application and he layed it on pretty thick and I just smiled and said your nice and all but I'm happly married. He said oh Okay. and he still flerted but not quite so thick. LOL Hugs Debbie

it makes you fee noticed, i am 37 and got a come on by a 21 year old. i hate to say it but i flirted with this guy not the 21 year old, and now i feel so stupid. thanks bebbie, i'm glad i'm not alone. - amanda

Girl don't feel stupid. I'm 38 and I'm jelouse, the men that have been flirting with me are my age. Dag gone it. Hugs Debbie

I feel the same way. No it's not wrong! I have told me guys at work...I don't mind being your eye candy, just don't make too big of a deal or I will go back to my frumpy clothes. Enjoy it, we've earned it. Denise

thanks denise, i kinda like the attention but i am worried about stepping over the line. - amanda

Amanda, Just make sure they know you are happily married and politely thank them. On the inside revel in it and let your pride swell for all that you have accomplished. It is our time now to be noticed by the oposite sex. Our time to feel beautiful. Our time to rise above the petty put downs we endured as children and into our adult years. I think I am on a soap box of ranting here. Sorry.... I hope I answered your question. Hugs & Love, Karin RYN 8/12/03 374/257/165

thanks karin, it is so weird getting this attention. thanks so much for the advice.- amanda