its over

My daughter delivered her baby girl. She weighed 11 ounces. She lived about 1 hour. I guess we are making it. It brought back so many horrible memories of when I got pregant as a teen and had to give my baby up. You labor for hours knowing you have no baby in the end.

The amniotic fluid was sereverly infected and baby Maycee would not have survived and my daughters life was at risk as well.

Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes.
tammy

I am so sorry for your loss.  You are in my thoughts.

Last year I my niece had a baby that's brain didn't develop . Angel lived for about an hour. My family and I feel your pain and know a little about what you are going thru. My niece knew for the last 4 months of her pregnancy that the baby probably wouldn't live but she hung on to her faith and we all prayed for a miracle. Some times its just notin God plan. My niece is now expecting again and is due in May. We are all praying that this pregnancy is ok. We found out later that her grandmother who hhad 12 children had one born like Angel. They have been blessed with one child before Angel.
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Tammy,
I am so sorry for you and your daughter's loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and I hope that time will take away some of the pain. Stay strong.

Tammy---I know that there are no words that can ease the pain that you and your daughter and the rest of your family are experiencing right now. Just know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything that you need or if you just need to talk, please let me know! I'm here.

  Karen

I'm so sorry Tammy.  I am sending peace and well being to you and your daughter.  That little soul wasn't ready for life here yet.  Maybe she'll come back again soon.
Kelley

THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!

I must say everyone on this board has the biggest hearts I have ever seen. Not many of you have met me in person but you all have sent prayers and well wishes. I can not thank you enough. Its a terrible thing my daughter is going through. She did not have a miscarriage where she lost tissue....she delivered a tiny baby weighing only 11 ounces and 9 inches long. We held her.....she had my daughters nose black fuzz for hair and my daughters ugly feet...lol

I am trying to be positive but it is hard to know my daughter is hurting so badly inside. How do you grieve for the baby and then try to help the mom....especially a 19 yr old who just wanted a baby? I keep telling myself it just was not meant to be.......I understand that but my daughter does not......she just wants Maycee back and thinks the drs and nurses could have saved her.

I am at a loss........I dont know how to help her.

Anyhow thank you once again for all you have said and done. I wish Susan were here I need that hug................

tammy

I have no words to make this better or I'd type them.  My thoughts are with you and yours. 

Hi Tammy
I am really sorry about Maycee.   I have never lost a child or grandchild, so I truly don't know how it feels, but I can only imagine that it is about as painful as anything could be.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you process this and seek to move forward.
Best wishes
Steve