chubgirl... stop with the nasty messages

Chubgirl, You may not like what I had to say to you in your previous post and that's okay.  I always honestly say what I think (even if it doesn't sound flowery and rosey) if I think it will help someone to hear it.   Whether you like it or not, I said the things I said to you in a bid to HELP you.  Not all help comes in the form of people telling you exactly what you want to hear.  Sometimes the people that help you the most are the ones that shine a light on something you need to see - whether you wanted to see it or not.  This is a journey where you have to be REAL with yourself to succeed.  Noone is doing you ANY favors by pulling punches at this point.   It is nearly impossible to offend me, so you are wasting your time and energy trying.  You need to spend YOUR energy on YOU at this point.  So I would advise that you stop the nasty messages to me, the comments (ex "who cares") on my blog.   I don't regret what I said to you.  I still believe every word of what I said to you and still stand behind every piece of advice I gave you.  I regret that you are not in a place where you are ready to hear it.   Wendy