maybe moving to Birmingham

I maybe offered a position in Birmingham to live for a great job.. here is the thing Hubby is going to PGH and I will be going to AL.. Im glad for the move but scared bout moving there knowing I had this surgery and would have to find a surgeon down there. My hubby just got a great position with his company but I would be making more money and it is hard to swallow... he has been wanting this position for a long time.. i dont want to kill his thunder but he doesnt want to come to Al.. hmm.. what should I do..