I have a question please

Louise, I wasn't referring to you at all.  This simple mess is why people don't come here any longer.  Not calling your post a mess, but this whole situation.  Let's lay it on the line.  Let's call it like it is.  Y'all simply can't stand BB.  Why be so hurtful and why be so unforgivable.  If Christ can forgive me/us of our FILTHY sins, why can't we forgive and move on?  Yes, I remember the laughs, but the other person on the other end was calling me too, LAUGHING and making CRACKS about what they wanted to do.  I am so ashamed and humilliated of myself for getting caught up in this entire situation.  This has gone on long enough.  What happened to FORGIVE AND FORGET.  If it were your spouse, would you hold it like cancer over their heads?  No, I doubt it.  You'd make up and move on.  The source might be "as you say" guilty in your eyes, but just let it go and forgive.  I have chosen to do just that.  I love you and I am so proud you are putting this behind us.  I just want "others" to do so as well.  I miss coming here, but I am so sick of the "past" being brought up by "OTHERS".  Does Christ bring up our past to us every day?  No!  He said it is cast into the sea of forgetfulness.  NEVER TO BE REMEMBERED AGAIN!  He also said "how can we say we love Him and hate our brother/sister in Christ....that man is a liar.  That is the Word.  I'm not directing this towards you.  I'm just saying it because I KNOW it will be read.  Unforgivness can and will eat at you like a cancer.  GOD HELP ME TO LEARN FORGIVNESS AND ACCEPTANCE!!!  What happened to the good old days when we give someone a second chance?  I bet some of these people have given their families chance after chance after chance after being hurt over and over again.  Just sayin..........

This is not directed to you Louise.  I know you are a good person and I love you.  I just want by gones to be by gones.  If anyone has reason to be hurt, it would be me because of all the accusations that were pointed to me when my wife died.  I have chosen to forgive.  I have also found my pictures where I PUT THEM and not where I said they were stolen.  BB is a good person and would give her shirt off her back and we ALL KNOW THIS!!!  Some just have a problem with jealousy and unforgiveness.  I only want this to die!!!  Let us kill cancer!!  Isn't it cancer awareness month?  I'm not taking lightly the TRUE CANCER AWARENESS, but we have to just forgive.  Love ya again my friend.  Have a wonderful day and YOU WILL ALWAYS BE CLOSE TO ME!!!  I will never forget you coming to my home the day Joie died.  You showed your true care, colors, and concern and I will always admore you for that.  I barely remember it because I was in shock and on valium, but I DO REMEMBER!!  YOU made an everlasting impression on me!!  Have a blessed day my Sister!!

No, Louise, he may not be talking about you, he's talking about me but too chicken to say it to my face.  So, he was sitting on the other end of the phone listening to her cackling laugh and making jokes of the horridous things she was doing or going to do, but said nothing?  I don't get it!  I just don't get it.  A Godly man of God would of put his foot down right then and there and stopped such foolishness.  Am I right?  or wrong?  Just tell me?  And by golly, who's jealous of who here?  I was the one someone was trying to "BE".  Wanted to be "ME", telling others they wish they were like "ME"!  How CRAZY is that?  Okay, I'm off my soapbox now.  One sweet little poster just asked a simple question here and it's gotten blown all out of proportion just like always.  Well, it sure has sparked an interest in the BAMA BOARD again.  Amazing it takes a little HEAT to get people to posting again, huh?  And we wonder "WHY" people leave this board?  Well, here it is.  You have your answer.


I feel the need to go dig into my nightly devotions a bit early tonight.  Goodness gracious.  Lord, help us all.

OH MY GOD.  Elle I never knew this.  I know a lot that was done that I have never told.  The sad sad part is they would laugh and think it was so funny what they did.  The mind of a very sick sick person.  I know she deleted your pictures as she called me from Kentucky while attending an OH conference and laughed about and told me she did it.  That is when I knew I could no longer be their friend.  I am so sorry about the pictures.  You know the old saying  " What goes around comes around".  One day they will get paid back.

You are so right.  Also the person sharing the room with her in Kentucky saw what she was doing, and told me themselves.  A true Godly woman, that I trust.  She would not lie and neither would YOU.  God bless you two for bringing these deceptions to light.

Okay Randall so you said it.  No I can not stand what she done to a lot of people and the lies she told about me.  Yes I did forgive her as I knew she had a mental problem.    But there is one thing that I did learn over 20 years ago in AlNon and that is we have to make amends to the people that we have hurt.  Just a few months ago I apologized to some one that I found on facebook.  As for your friend she has not made any amends and the Lord tells us to make amends and to apologize for our wrongs.  You can quote scripture all day long and it does not make you a Christian.  A true Christian will make their wrongs right. 
You know you are so right the person is the very reason a lot of people left and went to facebook.  The question was asked and I answered with the truth.  It seems that the truth hurts at times.  I have put her and her decietful, evil ways behind me.  I know a lot more than you what she has done and done to a lot of people.    If this were my spouse I would not uphold him  in this kind of behavior.  I was not raised to lie and I will not uphold a liar.  I am not mad at you you do what you have to do.   If it is asked again my answer will be the same.  Have a good day.

I think most people move on.   I am only 3 years out and make myself get on OH to do my daily food post if nothing else.  I want to be "normal" but I know I need the support and structure to keep me on track.

I think if I wandered away too long, I'd be at risk of regaining.

The good thing is no matter how long you disappear on the board, we can always come back!

I don't post much but I visit this board daily.
I really like the people here, but I agree with Hillary and Louise. The main reason I stopped posting was because of the non/op person that Louise is talking about.

What does non/op mean?

It is very nice to "meet" you NaNa!

Kim

non/op means they have never had surgery and probly never will. 

Louise,

Thank you.  I did not know that.  As my kids would say, a "poser",  LOL.

I am glad you are coming here again.  I have learned things from you too.  :O)

Kim