I am nothing if not obedient - per Hilary's request

Hilary, you asked about my date last night. 

Well, here's the scoop.  It is a confusing situation for me.

I met this guy on a singles site called Plenty of Fish.  His name is Joe and we first got together on a Friday, so I refer to him as Joe Friday.  Haha, and he gets that reference.  Nice.  We have had dinner a couple of times and went to a movie.

He is a really really nice guy and we can talk for hours.  But my gut says he is not THE guy.  I think he has thoughts that he is. My thoughts are that he is probably a great friend.

So, of course, I am just praying about it and trying to sort it out.  Is my gut off?  He is rather tenderhearted, do I say "see ya"?  And of course, this week's series on Joyce Meyers is all about setting boundaries ... crud!  So I am listening and praying and trying to discern.  But in the meantime, I enjoy his company.

And the shorter question is I ate half of the petite sirloin.  Went to the website to see what was a good choice.  I love the internet!

Any advice, y'all?

Janice

Men in general are confusing too me. LOL! I just got out of an on/off 10 yr relationship. Im only 25 so i have plenty of time to fine "the one" But it really sucks that i thought HE was, and well he WASNT.

If your gut says he isnt the one then maybe yall should have the talk. If you think he might could possibly grow to be that guy then stick it out and go on a few more dates. Im a firm believer if sparks dont fly when you kiss, you should definitely move on. BUt then again, thats just MY opinion.

Ive gotta check out this Plenty of Fish. I keep hearing of it.

I usually go with my gut feeling. I think at our age we know its best to listen to our instincts. Before I met Leo there were a couple of Joe Friday's in my life. I was totally surprised that they described themselves as only wanting friendship and yet after one date they seem to think they had found the right one. You can't know anybody after just a couple of dates so I usually ended those relationships rather quickly.

I love Joyce Meyer's. She is always so right on. She has described me many times!

Enjoy Joe's company but keep on looking!!

DebbieDoo

Good morning Janice!!!!  It sounds as though HE is speaking to you in a loud voice.  Sometimes He speaks to me and I don't listen very well.  It seems as though you have listened.  I love Joyce Meyer, also.  I have been listening to her series this week a bit and heard the message on frustration.  Boy did I need that LOL.  Well, I need all of them.  You have an awesome day.  You know...you are gonna meet a man who loves God more than anything and that will be your guy!!!

Thanks y'all!