QUESTIONS...
I do understand your backing out. 19 is awfully young to take that plunge and it is scary and a huge decision. My daughter (also named Tara) had her surgery a year ago when she was 23. She was scared to death, but determined. She has now lost 122 lbs. You just have to get to that point where you are ready. Nobody can take that step but you. Blessings and keep letting us hear from you. You will get a lot of support here.

Welcome welcome. As you go through this process you will find out that hesitance is pretty normal. This is a big deal (ha, no pun intended). When I was ready to call the doc and cancel a day or two before, my friends gratefully told me to think on it for a day. They were right. But at 17 ... wow, that would've been asking a lot.
As for BCBS and the diet. I had BCBS of Ohio when I had the surgery and now have it for AL. In Ohio, having Weigh****chers records was sufficient. So call the insurance company and ask what they want rather than stress over it. Either way taking care of yourself and your health is good no matter what the insurance company says.
This group is a good bunch of people. I am a new transplant to AL too (moved here last month), so can tell you that you have come into some serious welcome and care.
Janice
I had the same hesitation and backed out too! I had already started my 6 mth dieting and I just continued it because deep down I knew this was the choice that was going to be best for me! I have BCBS of AL also and by the time I finally made my mind up and was determined to go through with the surgery I turned in 11 months worth of dieting with a PCP. I would go ahead and start and it will help show the insurance company your determination and help you stay focused also. Good Luck to you!!!!