Back from seeing my ex

I left work this morning at 6 and drove to central Alabama and had lunch with him. Did a tour of his property and came home. Went to work and worked 4 hours. Now I'm home and ready to get some sleep. Our visit went well. I had not seen him in 42 years. Of course he lied and said I looked the same. I am glad I went to see him. But am glad I left him and divorced him also. He is still a very attractive man but you know the old saying beauty fades dumb is forever. But we did have some unresolved issues. I seemed to have hurt his feeling when I left him. Silly me I think he should be thanking God everyday that he doesn't have to put up with me. But ya'll don't worry there is not going to be wedding bells ringing around me. I know I am to hard to live with, why, one of my cats even ran away. I shouldn't expect a man to stay around.  So Jackie and others don't start shopping for wedding gifts.  Love to all. Miss Mary

Well Miss Mary---I THINK THIS IS AN INTERESTING STORY--AND AS I SIT HERE TONIGHT UNABLE TO SLEEP BECAUSE OF SOME PAIN I AM HAVING, I CERTAINLY WAS GLAD TO SEE YOUR STORY POP UP.

It is difficult to really know someone from a few post on a social network, but somehow I find it hard to believe you are hard to live with.  But, maybe so. My wife has stayed with me 35 years and I would not have given me 5 years or maybe minutes.  We have been lucky though.  We never fell out of love with each other at the same time--and the other was always too stubborn to let go.

Good luck to you.  I am glad Sherry and I have made it this far.  You know, we have so many inside jokes now.

I find it very very hard to believe you would be hard to live with.  It seems to me that as long as you have a good book and a cup of coffee you are just fine.  Now...you tell me how that is hard to live with.  Oh Miss Mary...you are a gem and anyone would be honored to have you with them.  Now you go and have an awesome day today.  I am happy that you got things that you needed resolved - resolved.  I love you!!!!

Aunt Mary, I'm so glad you did it and resolved some old issues.  At least you accomplished something.  I cannot imagine you are hard to live with.  I think you would make a wonderful bride and hope that you find that perfect someone someday.  You are very special and we ALL know it.  I think you did the right thing.

Love you, Aunt Mary,

Loretta

Well, I wasn't  planning a wedding... I just thought you 2 might have old embers still burning from years ago.  I can clearly see that your embers have gone out A LONG TIME AGO for this man! 
It's his loss...your gain, that's all!
Love you and will see you real soon!
Jackie

Hey, resolved issues, he got to say his piece and you got reaffirmation that you did the right thing.  Sounds like a very valuable trip!

I am with everyone else though.  Its hard to imagine that you are difficult to live with.

My son says I have ya'll all fooled. But he does agree that I'm not hard to live with..............he says I'm impossible to live with. Love, Miss Mary

Mary did you tell that fool that if you had not left him, he wouldn't have that place?  There's different ways to hurt feeling   some hurt more than others.    You are an independant soul with more energy and jobs than anyone I know.  You have my love, respect, and admoration. No wedding bells this year, fine.  The old F__t probably needs a caregiver and he knows you are the best.    Have a wonderful day.  You deserve one.

Brenda A