Apology

Just for the record I want to make a public apology to all of you. The reason you may ask. Well it is because I was a friend to some one at one time and they have  done a lot of evil mean things to a lot of people on this board. I am guilty of being their friend only. I did not put a gun to their head and make them send those letters from Jax State to all of you. I did not make them or know that they were deleting pictures and people profile until I was called and they bragged about it. That is when I decided I would terminate the friendship. I did not make them call Dilliards and tell management about somebodys posting in hopes of making them lose their job. You may ask how I knew all this, well as I said I was a friend. It has been insinuated that I was guilty as the person for not stopping it or speaking up sooner. When it did start affecting people I did speak up. By this time the person was accessing certain peoples personal info such as how much they paid for this and that. That is when I did speak up and no I am not sorry for that. I have even been told about somebodys  will they had just changed and included them. So to all of you that have been hurt I truly am sorry. The only thing that I am giilty of is being a friend. I have learned my lesson. So I hope that all of you can forgive me.

Louise,  You know, I "almost" didn't reply to this post.  I "almost" as long as I could.  What in the name of sam hill do you mean bringing all this up TODAY, almost 3 years later?  This is ALL water under the bridge.  The only thing you need to applogize for is for keeping mess stirred up.  I let this person know that I FORGAVE THEM!!  Even though I didn't have to, GOD DEALT WITH MY HEART and let me know that I needed to let them know I forgave.  IF God can forgive, why can't we.  When we sin and ask for forgiveness, He casts our sins into the sea of FORGETFULNESS.  Sometimes, we just got to forget.  This is the YESTER-YEAR many of us want to forget.  I love you, but In the name of Jesus,  STOP BRINGING IT UP!! 

Have a blessed night!

APPOLOGY ACCEPTED

I will not be slandered and be insinuated  at I am as guilty as they are. It was brought up yesterday. I will defend my rights. I was told that I was as guilty as they were because I did not stop it . I just wanted to set the record straight.  I will defend my name and my support group when I have to. I did not start the stirring of this and I am sorry that you feel this way about it. Again I did not bring it up some one else did. Stop them.

You should defend your support group and you should defend yourself.  I just can't see it on the board.  Did I miss a post where all this happened to you yesterday?  THEY need to stop too! 
I love you and I am NOT in any way bashing you.  I just am SO TIRED of this mess!! 

Yes it did happen yesterday. Go back and find it. You would not have like it either if it had been said to you. I would not have done this but I had no other choice.

I didn't see it.

You have a PM

Randall,

You won't find the entire thread, because after Louise made a somewhat personal attack and all but called me a Liar--I responded as she knew I would. After a couple of exchanges between she and I, she went back and deleted her post to the thread.

Here is the link to the thread--
http://www.obesityhelp.com/forums/AL/a,messageboard/action,replies/board_id,4803/cat_id,4403/topic_id,3713527/

I chose not to go back and delete my post. I find it amusing that people make post without thinking of the consequences and then go back and delete them when they realize they were inappropriate. I think this is a prime example of why people should THINK before they post. I thought carefully before I posted and I stand behind what I have said.

I agree--forgiveness is way past due. Carrying grudges and being angry consumes far too much energy.

Well said.

I agree.  I only see you giving support information to someone that asked.  You gave information and I "think" Louise took it too personal because of the name that was mentioned.  I can't tell her what I think because I only see one side as she deleted her replies to you.  I agree with you Carolyn. 

It is so sad that new people come here looking for support and end up seeing arguments.