Putting my son up for adoption.

He's 32 going on 12. He's banned from coming into my house again unless I'm here. He came over Sunday night. I had already left to go to Blount County to work in Bible School with my sister. He went to the frig and got himself a bottle of tea. He did not close the door good and my frig stayed open until 2:30 today when I got home. Everything is ruined. I'm extremely lucky the frig isn't ruined also. It was hot in the frig and it had worked trying to cool the whole house. I don't have central air, the small room airconditioner is in the livingroom and it must have been 90 in the kitchen. Everything is ruined. Now I've got to go to WalMart and spend money I  really can't afford. All my jellos, puddings, cheeses, Calorie Countdown Milk. I use butter just not often and I had bought some to make some cookies with. 2 pounds, melted all over the place. Needless to say I had a mess. Then to top it off The garbage bag busted as I was putting it in. It went everywhere. A jar of pepper rings shattered. I had to clean all that up. Came back into the house and started empting amother shelf and looked down and was standing in a puddle of blood. I was barefoot and the glass had cut the bottom of my foot and I had it all the way from the front porch to thru the livingroom and into the kitchen. I've had a awful mess to clean up. I'm so glad Shannon didn't come over this afternoon because I would have had to clean up again  because I would have beat the snot out of him.  He just called me again and apoligized. He offered to take me to WalMart and shop with me. But he didn't offer to pay for it. So I'm staying home. I have a dental appointment at 9 in the morning. I have an abcessed tooth. So they will probably just give me an antibotic and then I'm going to work and wor****il 7 P.M. then I've got to go pick up a school bus. I'm picking up the basketball team and taking them to Sparigian Hall at UAB in Huntsville at 6:30 Thur. and Friday mornings. Then work Saturday and Sunday. So my week is laid out for me.  I hope everyone has a good productive week. I'll check back in as soon as possible. Love, Miss Mary

Bless it! I guess I would have cried!!! I am so proud your frig didn't mess up!! Hope you have a better rest of the week!!

Oh Miss Mary.  No one will adopt him......  I guess you are stuck with him just like I am with my two!!!  Someone asked me when they left home if I had the empty nest syndrom.  I told them no way.  They never really left the nest!!!

Awwwwwwww..you have my sympathy.

First, I think I would hurt Shannon---want me to do it for you?

And second--As for an ABCESSED TOOTH......I have just today finished 14 days of FIVE antibiotics for an apparent abcessed tooth that got out of control while I was out of town for a weekend! I fully understand that tooth thing. Be sure to get it take care of.

I am not sure exactly where you are living right now, but I am still in Huntsville. If you need anything, please let me know.

Carolyn

How about swapping your one 32 for 2 that equal 30 (14 & 16, almost 17)...they BOTH do things like that all the time...then blame the other for doing it.  And SWEAR it was the other one, then argue with each other about it. I feel for you...Hope your week gets better! 

Miss Mary I have an 18 year old that is going on 2. Does things like this frequently. Our latest is his cell phone bill. He let a friend of his use it to call his grand mother in another state. Yea! now our phone bill is over $400.00. No apology either. No offer to help pay it. Just deal with it. So as soon as we possibly can get our contract bought up we are going to buy minutes. So that means he will have to buy his own. Which means he won't have any cause he doesn't have a job. I hope things are better for you this week! HUGSSS!! Debby

Hugs to you Ms Mary!

Mary , Lock the doors and take your keys and NO COMING over unless your home...NO child should take advantage of their  parent ,,,,So may do and it hurts us to tell them no but sometimes we have to...BEEN THERE... I am sorry as I am a parent too and i know how tough it can be.. Hugs  Shirley

Oh Miss Mary, I am so sorry that this happened and your poor foot.....I sure hope it is ok!  I would have went over to his place and pulled him by his ears all the way back and made him clean up the mess......GEEEZ kids no matter the age just don't think sometimes.most of the time. I am with Rhonda on this one, I'll trade ya my 2 teens for your son.  I have 2x the trouble.  Something happens and it is always "he did it" then the fighting starts.....ARGH!   Have a blessed day my sweet friend and I'll pray things get better for ya!