Thanks For All The Prayers
I want to say THANK YOU and that I LOVE YOU ALL. Please continue to remember us during this time. Terrell (my brother-in-law) and his family arrived in Ft. Valley, Georgia and spent the night with his mother. They got up this morning and are headed to Orlando, Fl. All he told me was Dakota, his son, had been killed in an automobile accident. I should know more by late PM or early AM. I am assuming Dakota was with his mother (ex-wife of Terrells) on vacation. He will have Dakota flown back to their home to South Dakota. On the way back home he will be stopping by here to visit with us.
This poor man lost his oldest son 3 years ago, this August, by an accidental death. Blair had not seen his dad (due to his ignorant mother) in 2 years and he was actually spending the entire summer with Terrell 3 years ago. Well Blair and Terrell became closer than ever and Blair asked his father if he could live with him. Terrell told him if his mother said it was ok then he would love for him to live with him and his family. Of course mom said no and Blair got really depressed and upset. The night before he was to go back to moms home, he told Terrell that he loved him more than his mom and he hated her for all the things she use to do to him. At 1am they all went to bed to arise at 6am and take Blair back. Terrell got up at 6am and couldn't find Blair....a few minutes later he found him dead in the floor of the bathroom. Blair had sprayed AIR FRESHNER on a washcloth and HUFFED it. It killed him. Blair was only 14.
Excuse my language but this family has been through HELL over the past 20 years. Please keep our family and especially Terrell Wagonhoffer, in your prayers. God knows best and has plans but it hurts like heck right now!!!!!!!!!
~ Susan
Hi Susan. There are no words adequate enough to say. Losing a child is one of the worst things a person can go through in life and your brother in law has lost two. I pray God will give him supernatural strength through this. I know what it is to sit beside the grave of your child. God's strength is what brought me and Jimmy through that time in our lives. Prayers will be going up for Terrell and the whole family.
Thank you Miss Lady Bug. I can't say I know how he is feeling but I know his heart is breaking. Thank you for your prayers and support. I think it is extremely hard for me right now because since March 2004 I have lost my Momma-Margaret Falls, Brother-Johnny Davidson, Nephew-Blair Wagonhoffer and now Nephew-Dakota Wagonhoffer. Terrell was not only my brother in law but at one time we were best friends, I was closer to him than his own blood. I so hate to see him going through this AGAIN!
I'm so sorry I just keep rambling. Thank you for everything my dear friend.
~ Susan