I recieved this PM from Karla

Randall, are you aware that Mary Alice cannot raise $250 dollars to get her phone back?  Are you aware that your mother needs your help and is too proud to ask?  Are you aware that you seem to be the only one oblivious to this fact?  Do you know how badly this makes you look?   In addition, did you know that Michael had to help her with groceries?  Could you please come down off of clouds long enough to be a son and help your mother?  People are watching and very disappointed in you for your actions toward your mother.  I, personally, thought you were a much better man than this.  However, you seem to be shutting out the important people in your life other than Lucy and yourself.  Yes, I am not happy with you.  I prefer to take it up with you personally as I don't think the board is the forum and there is a remote possibility that you don't know how bad off Mary Alice is.  But my friend, she is not fine, as you say. I wasn't going to post this, but I don't believe in hidding anything.  May I say to you, Karla, that UNLESS you KNOW the entire FACTS of the Story MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!  I love you, but my Momma has told me ALL about her situation and She chooses to help my sister instead of herself.  She gives my sister money.  My Momma draws more than I do every month.  My momma pays my sister's fines that she owes in restitution.   I am NOT oblivious to anything nor am I on any cloud that I can not see my family or their needs. Belive me, I hear them all.  To anyone wanting to know facts, just ask me!  THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU!  Gwen knows that I didn't know about my Momma's phone because she emailed me asking me last week.  Thank you Karla, but you opened this can of worms.  Stop trying to analyze everyone and everything!  Love ya!

Well,  I personally am offended Karla!! How mean someone can be!!  My goodness.  For one thing, you don't even know the truth of the situation!!  Who gives you the right to butt into his business and say the things you said!!!  Unbelievable!!  You have crossed the line big time and you owe Randall an apology and Mary too!!!  I am praying for you and for myself!! I need to forgive you and for the things you have said!!  Randall is right in that the bullying needs to stop!!  People need to be kind and supportive of each other!!  We need to be at peace and support everyone in their wt loss efforts!!  I pray for everyone and I will be praying about this!!!  I am in shock and appalled!!!  Thats all I can say!!!

I certainly hope that as a youth pastor or minister,  when someone says something to you privately you do not go around sharing with everyone the way you did this.  I was totally taken aback when you posted something that was sent to you privately.  Even if the poster did not have the right information,  you should have responded directly to her.  I am so disappointed with what happened on this board.  Maybe this is something you need to talk to your pastor about and with his experience he might be able to explain why this should have never happened and how you could handle something like this in the future.    

Hot diggity dog-this is asking for the cornnugget all over it-and i have been trying to be so good lately. here is the deal. if ya got a business-doctor, psych,plumber,ditchdigger-wait for the customers to come to you-don't go out and force someone to get their ditch dug or whatever. i think dr.phil here needs to become an ambulance chaser that way getting her clients is much more exciting than gabbing on the phone with some gossip. i say leave the google eyed lovebirds and alone and stop being jealous. you will get ya a man (or woman) one day when the time is right. the later may be a good option for you but i am not volunterring.go get busy and enjoy life instead of jumping into others. as far as the praying goes, PTL this PTL that-thats all good but if I remember -before my pagan days- when i was drug to church- Jesus got all mad when they selling concessions at outside his temple-he did little praying during that tme and just kicked butt and a few tables over. get mad, its okay. before surgery most of us would get mad and go eat our anger away. no way, i say, let's rumble cuz it burns more calories.

Well...a few days away sick and this is what I find.

Randall...You are an AWESOME son.  Your mother has never had reason to doubt your love for her.  Nor do I think she would!!!!

Blessings,

 

Lisa

 

Huh???

Private messages are just that, private messages. Glad you kept your composer, well somewhat! LOL We love you Randall. Edited to add: Opps I was too late. Randall must have been typing as I was....I have no comment! Love you both Karla and Randall!

Sorry Gail.  I couldn't hold my composure.  Sorry I let you down along with others. 

No problem Randall.  I understand that sometimes it's hard to hold our feelings when we are hurt and upset. I don't know the situation but I am here my friends!  Love you!

I was ok till Lucy was brought into this.  Love you too my friend!  I'm just in shock.