RNY scheduled for 12-22-09

This is happening so fast. I thought it would take forever. Getting nervous but excited at the same time.  Quit smoking the day I found out my surgery was scheduled. Feeling alittle grumpy right now. If I can get thru this I can make it thru the rest.
Still not sure how to deal with the not lifting part afterwards. Can anyone with kids tell me what the limitations are and how long they last?

Any words of encouragement or advice would be greatly appreciated. So would recipes and protein drinks recommendations.

Good luck to you all, God Bless and Happy Holidays
Tracy