I Can't Keep a Dang Secret...

FAST   FORWARD.... 16 YEARS...  Letter from Heather's Daughter...

Hi, Mommy...
I miss you soooo much... being on this Gosh Darn island with Nuns!!!  I have a new friend, but he's ONLY a friend... I swear!!!!   I sent you our picture, but please don't show Daddy... You know that he'll only react and send my off to some more remote place.  I'd hate to break my vows or "change teams" so even if my friend looks like he's standing a little too close to the back of my habit... it's only so that we both show up in the picture... I swear!  I never think of ___ex... just like I was told before you and Daddy "packed" me off to live here!   Hope that you are HAPPY!!!
 I love you, Mommy... Sister Bertille

CONGRADS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and as far as your husband goes. i'm sure as soon as he sees the little one (boy ot girl), the gender will no longer matter a bit.

for what it is worth, my bf wants us to have 2 girls (hey, i'm all for it...esp. if they are twins:) but i told him if they turn out 2 be boys he better love them just as much.
love, nat

Nat, That's sooooo sweet! 
Hope that you two do have some babes!!! 
Ro

thank you, RO!!!! We plan to...if and when we ge married...i'm getting old-fashioned at my old age:)
we've only been together for about 5 month. i think he is a keeper but only time will tell

Sounds like his interested!!!   Maybe it's time to make a Pro & Con list... just in case he "pops the question"... It would be nice if you had an answer!  (I'm such a trouble maker... )  HeHeHe

Girls names are shortlisted:

Caitlin Marie
Jessalyn Ann
Amberlyn Marie

Boys names.. still fighting over.. been turned down over 60 times in 6 years.  If it wasn't up to him to decide if it was a boy or girl, I'd have a boy just to spite him!

Love the Girl Names!!!!
What are the "suggested" boy names... like really weird ones???  Old family... really weird ones?
Have Twins!
Ro

Let's see.. the list that has been poo-poo'd...

Christian
Gabriel
Sebastian
Gavin
Griffin
Jareth
Jared
Trystan
Miles
Rory

The only 3 that are actually, seriously being considered by the spouse:
Cassady (my family name.. I even have a cousin Cass)
Cadeon (Cade for short)
Seth

Well... I do love the idea of YOUR family name being part of your baby's name... boy or girl!!!

Seems DH is going conservative with the names compared to the poo-poo'd list; all keepers!

How about "test driving" the different names on the cats?  Sure they probably won't come when you call them, but did they really respond before anyway?  I'd try-out each name and the nick-names that go with them and then omit where needed!

Our new grandson's name is Tyler.  When I first heard people call him Ty Ty, I said... Hmmm....
Now I think it's cute, but I only say "Ty Ty" to bust my DH, who is such a mush-pot of a grandpa!
Our first grandson, Jayden, will probably be called Jay when he is older.. or so I've heard!  Both are from DH's #1 son.
DH #2 son is getting married in this year and his soon-to-be Mrs. has a 5-yr-old named Kenzi... She's precious.  DH can't wait for her to call him Grandpa..  He is also putting pressure on the couple to have a baby already!!!!   Good thing that they are grounded!!!  Love 'em all!!!
Ro

Hmmm...  Cassady... Checked it out:

http://baby-names.familyeducation.com/name-meaning/cassady  (Girl Name???)

http://baby-names.familyeducation.com/name-meaning/cade  (Both Sexes)

http://baby-names.familyeducation.com/name-meaning/seth

http://baby-names.familyeducation.com/name-meaning/tristan   Noisy One?? What???  Couldn't find Trystan, but he'd probably get the name Stan later in life!

http://baby-names.familyeducation.com/name-meaning/myles  I like this one!  But then again I like Milo!

http://baby-names.familyeducation.com/name-meaning/milo  HeHeHe

Wow... names can be mind boggling...    Ro