Update on convo with DH

I posted last week about starting Lexapro and some resentment issues with my husband and whether to discuss it with him. Well, on Saturday night my husband and I had a long talk and yes there was some alcohol involved. Before we had kids we would sit on the couch and drink wine and talk into the wee hours of the morning and that is exactly what we did. We had a great conversation and both agree that we now feel closer to one another. My husband and I met on the internet back in July of 1997 so communication has been very important to our relationship so this was a necessity for us. I believe we are now on the same page and will make some positive strides. Thank you all for your support and advice it was greatly appreciated.

glad to hear you were able to "get it out" and are on the path to a healthier and happier marriage. Beatriz PS: It looks like I need to do the same.....

You guys are just too cute to fight! Seems like a bit of date night was finally brought back into your life. After kids, we kind of forget the loving couple that made it all happen. Good for you...refreshing you interest in eachother! Ro

Hi Amy I am glad you have ressolved some issues. talking away from the kids is soo important. I am ready to go out with my husband for sure, however I work up until the night before my surgery plus I cannot drink now anyway. Sat night we are doing something as a family though. BTW I met my husband online May 1999 and we married Oct 1999, a site called webpersonals. I don't think it exists anymore. Take care...Erin

So glad to hear it Amy!! Good for you! Hey I also met my husband online in 2003, married in 2004

Thanks for all the replies and support. Funny how many of us met spouses on the net. We will celebrate our 9th wedding anniversary 7/31. Definitely believe fate brought is together, otherwise how would we have both ended up in the same chat room 1280 miles apart

Hi Amy, Sorry I missed what the first post was but glad to read that you and dh had a good talk and made some good progress. Communication can be hard but so important. Hugs! Molly (ps...I met my husband cruising our local teen-hangout street--how weird! We'll be having our 25th anniv. in May.)