update
Hi guys....I would like to say a huge thank you for everyone supportive messages this past week. I wanted to let everyone know that my husband and I are making an effort to pick up the pieces of our marriage. We both have our doubts and issues we are getting individual counceling for. But for now we are going to work on ourselves and marriage. Something else I did today is five my 3 week notice to my job that I have hated for the past year. It is holding me back from finding another one and I just got to a breaking point. Tired of being an unhappy soul.
Also seeing plastic surgeon on Friday about just doing the panni, boob job and eyelids, not any muscle tightening. Hopefully I can save about 5g's. I have been working out so hard and my muscles are in great shape, do no want them cut.
I am also staying at my goal wt of 160 yipeeee.
Thank you again soooo much for all of you. You are apprciated so very much..
Big Hugs.....Erin
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on 4/9/08 5:29 am
on 4/9/08 5:29 am
You're such a Sweetie!!! I really hope that things go smoothly for you and DH.
(I gives me hope that things will calm down here too.)
Staying in a job that drags you down is horrible.... so good for you!!
Glad to hear that the PS is moving along and that you will save some $$$$.
I am just testing the waters... trying to find a surgeon. I need to exercise.
Thanks for the motivation to get off of my rump... tight muscles... good idea.
160!!! and Maintaining!!! So happy for you.... XOXOXO Ro
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on 4/9/08 9:58 am
on 4/9/08 9:58 am
Erin... I have 3 sons back home right now... in and out... until the summer (????)
Now these guys are 26, 25, and 24... not really a problem, except for the privacy level. So the couple factor has taken a nose dive, but we were arguing before this anyway.
So now I'm going through this "gross out boob" stage and the don't bother me stage.
He's feeling like I have a thousand "rules"... Hello, Body Image Issue here.
I'm really hoping that the PS will help me. Angela, Meghan, and Beatriz seem so pleased that I'm hoping that it will help my mind set. Now you're Ready!!!
I have been looking for a closer support group. Maybe I can hook-up with some ladies that are going through the same issues for after the session. The group is subject directed, but has some chit-chat. Just don't think that they want to hear that I need my "pancakes" fixed. LOL
Tax time sucks for everyone and wer are juggling $$$ and trying to update the house.
DH finally said that I could have "full say" on the house choices. OK... DO U Believe it either? Now I'm looking into PS and that's a big step. My Bariatric surgeon gave me some good PS names.... so I have some homework in front of me. The pics on their websites just confuse me even more... Frustrated Ro
Not to get personal, but are you going through similar things? I just want to know if it is a "universal" marriage thing or a "universal" WLS thing. BTW... Is everyone else fine? No problems with Hubby since surgery?
I thought that it might be related to the change in food at one point...
Today I bought fried chicken and a rotisserrie chicken then he added mac 'n' cheese... I added zucchini to the shopping chart. Food changes have had a stress on us.
A Very Whining Ro
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