Hey family, I was just sitting at home checking my email and it dawned on me that today I am 4 months out. Wow lets see, so many things have changed for me. First, I began my journey in October of 2005, at that time my weight was 386lbs. I had my surgery done on December 27th, 2005. At that time my weight was 356lbs. Now, only four months out I am down to 263lbs. I never thought i would actually have my surgery and I surely never thought I would be down this much in only a short time. Second, my body looks so different now. I can look down and actually see my feet. I can get into my bed and not be scared I am going to break it. I can walk up staris and not be so out of breath. I can sit with my legs crossed. I am healthy. Third, I am actually more involved in my daughters physical activities. This past Saturday was her first baseball game of the season. Normally I would have sat on the sidelines and watched the game. (hoping the game would be over soon) Instead I was in charge of making sure the children stayed in order and payed attention to what was going on. I felt so proud of myself. Finally, I know that I am a healthier and more active person. I really think that I made the best choice. I have been throught alot and I want to thank you, my extended family members for all of your help. HUGGGS to you all, Melissa

Petty, You have done incredibly well! I have only lost 63 lb., but I will be in the "obese" BMI range once I am sure that the last couple of pounds will stay off... So that is a good goal too. Keep up the good work! HUGS, Pat

I cut mine!!!!! I'm still loosing it but the cut did help take away the stringyness (is that a word) to it. I have worn my hair long and short. So it didn't bother me to cut it. Now if it didn't bother me to see it every where but on my head I would be OK. Still have all of my wigs so I am ready. And yes I have blonde wigs too. You know if I wear a burgundy one I have no problem being a blonde

welcome and congrats to your weight loss!

Hey I understand. I'm debating on cutting mine off too. I'm so sick of seeing hair everywhere around the house (I'm losing hair really badly). I have to literally clean the drain after every shower or it will stop up for hubby's shower. UGH! Best Wishes! Carol G.