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Topic: Help, I am very dissapointed!!
I had my surgery in December of 2005 which means in just a few months, I will be at the 2 year mark. Well, I have to say that I am very dissapointed in the results of my Lap-band surgery. Maybe it is just me, but I really have had no follow-up by the doctors office etc., and unless I make the effort to make an appointment and see the doctor myself, just no help is out there.
I know that those in the area that have had lapband surgery have a support group that meets once a month. But, come on that is just not enough for those of us that still have this problem. I know that I am not eating properly, but without guidance etc., it is pretty hard to pin-point just what I am doing wrong. I do not eat anything like I used to eat and I turned 50 last November so maybe that has some bearing on why I am not losing the weight, but I have to say that I am so very frustrated. Just want to look and feel better...not happening and thought by this time, I would be down at least 60- 80 pounds and not just 40 pounds.
Please, I am looking for someone to pull me out of this gutter I am lying in, maybe there is someone out there that is having the same concerns as me, but has found the answer. I am still looking for the magic pill, or something that will make me stop eating for good.
Please email me back and let me know!!
Carol Gondeck
Topic: RE: Where did the time go???
Where did the time go? I ask myself that everyday. I am down 157 pounds and size 26-28 to 4-6. In theory I knew I would loose weight, but i never imagined myself being this size, EVER. I can eat almost anything except sugar, rice and pasta. It isn't so much of what I eat, but how much and how fast. If I eat too much too fast I dump. I have to eat small amounts, about 2-3 oz several times a day. It has been an adjustment. My usual mode of exercise is walking. But I think it is time to start looking into joining a gym. As far as my health, I no longer use my CPAP machine when I sleep and I no longer take any blood pressure medications. I don't feel like I am slowly dying anymore. My health has definitely improved. I think everyone who decides to change their life through weight loss surgery should be proud of what they have accomplished. Contrary to the myth that "this is the easy way out", it has not been an easy journey. Not just from the physical changes, but the emotional and mental discoveries/changes I have been going through. I am grateful everyday that I made this choice and would do it all over again.
Topic: RE: Where did the time go???
18 months and I am down 110 lbs but still need to lose another 40, 60 , 80 lbs. Those are the steps I am taking it in. 40 is the minimum. 60 would be great----80 would be PERFECT.
But, hey this isn't about perfection--its about my health, and right now---its FANTASTIC.
My surgeon and I have discovered I have had a mechanical failure of my Rny----my stoma is WAY too big and emptying my pouch too fast. We worked on a repair and that seems to be helping. I've lost another 10 lbs in two months. I'll take it!!!
I don't like to exercise and walking has been my main form. But my PCP says its time to step it up to build some cardio vascular stamina. So, he recommended that I join a gym or the Y. NOT Curves he said---too much impact on the circuit thing and I already have a stress fracture in my foot.
So, that is my next step---HEYYYY think I can find a sexy cute trainer to help me out ?
I am proud of what I and my surgeon have done for my health. Now it's time for me to step up and do MORE on my part.
Topic: RE: Choosing my new style!
YOUR style is what you like, fits well and makes you feel GOOD on the inside.
I still keep the same style clothing----good fitting, pleated trousers or capris. With colorful solid or print tops. I have saved some of my classic dresses for when I lost weight and am just now--getting back into them.
I love the kind of look from "LLBean or JCrew" So I am working within those parameters---thought I do every now and then throw caution to the wind and get something trendy ----like LIME green capris with a CUTE top and then matching sandals. THAT outfit just made me feel like the tropical Florida woman I am.
Topic: RE: Big Weekend
Pictures Pictures---did you take pictures of you dancing your skinny self at the reunion?
You showed off for them---now show off for your December Buddies!!
Topic: RE: Tesha from Big Medicine...
So cool Tesha!
I love that show but I don't think I saw that one. I will watch for the rerun though!
Diona
Topic: RE: Where did the time go???
Time absolutely flies! I'm down 181 and would like to lose another 22 before my two year appointment. That will be my goal which I would be very happy to make. Things are great---blood work outstanding/no complications.
I still have problems with chicken, pork, bread, and rice...and sugar if it is a lot ( can eat a couple of cookies but really dumped on a Starbucks that I thought was SF and wasn't.)
Exercise has become (dare I say) fun. Have been power walking a lot and adding strength training through Jazzercize body sculpting and weights and stability ball at home. I went to water aerobics this summer which I usually do each summer but I didn't enjoy it as much----the water made me freeze all day. Coldness is still sometimes a hardship to be lived with.
Clothes shopping has been fun and at times confusing. Why is a 16 and a 16W not the same size? Why is the size in one store not the same in another? How do you buy panty hose? Or underwear? Where do you buy clothes when the 0X at Catherine's no longer fits?
It's nice to just go somewhere and have no one notice you because you are so heavy.
Topic: RE: Where did the time go???
Hi there,
I went a couple weeks ago for my 18th month check up. I am down 224. It's so amazing. I could still stand to lose another 25 lbs. I plan on really trying even thou the weight loss has slowed down quite abit. I can eat everything which is not good. I just started experimenting with sugar, I was faithfully staying away from it, but lately have been trying alittle at a time, and no dumping. I love being able to wear cute clothes, of everyone at work gives me a hard time cause I always have new clothes. I am seeing some jealousy for the first time. A couple of my coworkers seem annoyed when people mention my weightloss. I have gotten smaller then them, I guess they liked it better when I was the "fat girl in the office" I don't let it get me down thou. I remember how it feel. Life is great.. lets get this forum going again.
Lynn
Topic: RE: PLEASE everyone help me
I signed for you. I don't know how long it will take to post. I have seen this on the news but never stopped to listen. We are in such a sad state when it doesn't concern us we never stop. You are in my prayers.