To All December Pre-Ops!!
I wish you luck, health, joy and excitement for the path you're all about to take. The 7th will be nine months for me and it has been the most exciting time of my life! I know you're all feeling a bit jittery right about now. It's completely normal.
I suggest two things: First, go to the "before and after" pics section and look at them and think "this will be me, soon!" Do not, Do NOT, DO NOT read profiles right now! Occasionally, you will hit a land mine (a profile of a procedure that didn't go well) that'll scare the holy poo out of you. JUST LOOK AT THE PICS.
Second, time to do some visualization: Close your eyes, a couple times a day, and picture yourself, 12 months from now: How you feel, how you look, the fun of buying clothes OFF THE NORMAL RACK, how other people are complimenting you, the shock of recognition by people you haven't seen in awhile. Feel the feelings, smell the smells, all of it. Take your time. Bask in it. Enjoy it. Then, just for a minute, visualize yourself, one year from now, if you DON'T have the surgery done. If you're like me, you'll almost SKIP into the OR!!!
Peace; God Bless! Happy Holidays! And Good Luck!!
Greg Sands
(342/202/175)
Wow Greg,
Thanks so much for your post. I really needed to hear that. I have been up and down for the last 2 weeks and read every story on the memorial page of OH....Big Mistake. I'm going straight back to the before and after section! My surgery is on 12/13.
Congratulations to you on your success and thank you for taking the time to encourage all of us.
Just call me Amelda.