Thanks Chelle. It's nice to know that I am not alone in all this. I'm sure things will work out for the better at some point. It just doesn't seem like it now. Melissa

Oh sweetheart, hugs and kisses After all you have been through he wants to walk away. I'm here for you. Need to talk I'm here. [email protected] My husband has been on my ass about going back to work but I'm trying to get my old job back that pays $9.00 which is NOTHING but it's better then anything. Hugs Donna

((((Melissa)))) I remember ya and can understand how you're feeling... I have also gained a few pounds back from my lowest point and am still MILES away from my own goal of being below 200 lbs... Unfortunately, the surgeons only fixed our tummies and our minds are still our own... I was and still am an emotional eater... I find myself snacking and eating the wrong things too... I was one of the heaviest in our December family so it's depressing for me to see others who are at their goal and I am still so far... I try not to let things get to me but I am human and it does... I am happy for all those who've had success but just wish I had a little more here too... But enough about that... I just want you to know that YOU are not alone in this... There are definitely others who are struggling with the same issues as we are... They may just not say anything on the board(s) but I bet they struggle too... Don't give up hon whatever you do... Don't let the war with weight get you down... You can do it... Never give up though!! Keep fighting!! I'm right there with you all the way and will support in any way that I can... I'm an email away if you need to talk about anything in a more private setting that on the board... Feel free to write if you'd like by hitting my e-mail link... As for the potential divorce facing you, I've been there too... I never thought I could make it on my own either but I have... I've actually thrived on my own & re-married a wonderful man... I finished college & have worked hard to get where I am now in more ways than one... Just remember that if there is a will, there is a way... You will get through this... Just be strong for the kids Melissa... They will need you to do that... I know sometimes when things are facing you it seems hopeless but you just gotta keep movin' on... I have a feeling you will be fine... Believe in yourself! You're not a failure... Besides think of it as a fresh start... A better life even... Although now it seems overwhelming I know... Anyhow, I'm here for ya to lend an ear and a shoulder if you need it... (((((HUGS)))) Chelle

Hi Melissa, I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. As you already know I'm also having a hard time with my weightloss. I can't read my yahoo e-mail here at work but I'll check it this evening when I get home. You can e-mail me when you need someone to talk to. Do you have family that can help you? Maybe you can move in with them until you find a job. I know is hard when you have kids but you have to be strong for them. Good luck to you. Hugs, Norma Cantu

Vanilla ice cream???!! I would dump on that. I'm shocked they allow that in a diet but maybe it helps with the cravings of sweets?? Donna