Do something sexy or fun for yourself

I did something today that really built my self esteem up 300% and made me feel sexy and desirable and I did for for my husband and me. I used to wear thigh high stockings when I was thinner and my husband asked me to go purchase some for him today I could not wait to get home to put one on. slipped that baby on and it not only looked sexy but made me feel sexy Go out and doing something special for yourself, spouse or both of you. I even pulled out my five inch heels that I forgot I had and put them on and they look hot with my nice new black stockings. Yes, the truth is known Donna used to be on the wild side a few years ago before all this weight piled on me. Actually my husband liked seeing his wife dress on the sexy side for him and a woman does look nice when wearing high heels. Donna

Well I have a drawer full of sexy panties,bras, nighties for my hubby. The thing is he can't keep his hands off of me! Sometimes I wanna wear an old flannel to bed. But I don't think that would matter. I know everyone is saying" be thankful that you are so desired by him" but sometimes I just feel like an object and since the surgery my sex drive has slowed a little. Hormones maybe? Glad you and your hubby are having excitement in that area! Sorry if this was too much info. Just felt like sharing my expierience. Kelly

You did not give to much info and that's what we are here for is to share, right. I did not have that great of a sex drive for a while after my surgery. The passed few months I can't keep my hands of my husband Donna

Hi girls, I am so jealous Donna. I have no sex drive. It up and left. Hubby can't keep his hands off me. I wish it wasn't such a chore for me. Diana

Without going into open details. Ron and I speak openly about our wants and desires. I tell him what I don't like and I what turns me on and we go from there Maybe you can do the same with your husband? Donna

I am so there! My sex drive has always been way up there. Since my surgery my husbands has increased. He is always grabbing at me and pulling me down to his lap. I spend many a time on his lap watching tv now. We will be married 12 years this week and it is better than the dating years! I am loving my new me and it is so cool to be able to see how many new positions I can now get into.( sorry if it is too much) I have started doing many stretching exercises just to help in this. We are still finding new and exciting ways and I think that is so imprtant in keeping your sex drive high. He also makes me feel so good about myself how could I not be! your sister in wls Chandi 305/190/?

I as long as it's not in great detail I find nothing wrong with what you shared here. We have been reborn and we have husbands who loved us before but loves us even more now My husband is always grabbing me, pulling me, kissing me and more I love the new me. Donna