single ladies????

OK ,,im looking for a new girlfreind,so if anyone knows any nice single ladies..please let me know ok?..lol..lol..I am getting a new body and life ,,so I need a new girlfriend as well. I gave it a lot of thought, and asked a couple of ladies on OH to hook me up, and then I thought,just go out there and ask everyone to help, Thats what we are here for ,,to help each other and you never know,,I might be in the right place at the right time..lol..lol God bless you all..

YOU GO BOY!! That's the only way to do it is come out and ask. Get to know each other over the internet and by phone and then through a visit. Although I understand your getting a new body like the rest of us that should not play a big factor in finding finding Miss right. Your personality speaks for you Ron and your a nice looking man in my books. I have never looked at my men for looks. I meet my husband Ron over the Internet back in 1996. We became friends and remained friends up until 2000. Within the time frame of 1996 and 2000 we both got to know each other in a very deep way as we shared everything with each other. We both ended up getting live in boy/girfriend so we kind of faded away in emailing each other, once in a while I would send him an email and ask how he was doing and he would say fine. My relationship was going down the toilet so I decided to email Ron and cry on his shoulder as a dear close friend. Well come to find out he was putting his girlfriend out because she wanted to party all the time. After I got my own place and his girlfriend was moved out we started talking once again as friends only and he came for a week visit. We hit it off and about 6 months later I moved to NY to be with him and his son. We bought a home together and got married So relationships can develope over the internet but you MUST become friends first. You also share so much more by email and chat as you don't see each other face to face and it was so easy for me to lay my whole life out in front of Ron by email and chat becuase what's the worse that would have happened. Ron get turned off by my emails and never email me again. Donna 338/237 -100

Ron, It is so funny, I am at the point where everytime I meet a single lady, I think, "would she be right for Ron?" Ha ha! Seriously though, maybe through your church? Someone once told me that a lot of people meet at the supermarket, so go "shopping", but don't be to forward, just friendly or someone might hit you with some produce. Just kidding! Be your loveable self and you will meet the person you were meant to be with! You deserve somebody very special. Love Ya, buddy! Fran

I know how you feel ... I have been thinking about looking again, too, and I am wondering if there isn't some internet site for us! You know, where you can specify 'within 50 miles' (sorry, Ron, I'm too far away for you!!), no smokers, etc., but where WLS is assumed, or even a requirement. It's just that it would be nice if this experience were something in common. I think that non-WLS people don't really understand what we have been through, and will go thru our entire lives. I've had people assume, for instance, that once I hit goal, I can go back to eating like I did before! That could be a problem on a date! ~~ Leslie R.

Ron, You should have no problem finding a girlfriend. You are a good looking guy and have a great personality. Women love guys who are down to earth and not self-absorbed. The best line is simply, "Hello, my name is Ron." You will be able to tell by the conversation if a date is the next step. I have been dating the same guy for 5 years...but, when i was first divorced, i was sort of forward when it came to dating, well not forward but always the first to say Hello, when I saw a guy that interested me. I believe you may find someone right here on OH!!!! And you are goodlooking, I said that to myself the first time i saw ya! dee

Hey Ron! You are indeed one handsome man! My guess is you'll have no problem hooking up! Chrissy 257/186/137

Ron, There you go, ask for what you want/need. I also think that you will have no problem finding someone special, just because you are such a wonderful man and it shows in all you do. You also are a very handsome man with a great smile. Keep positive and it will come to you. Hugs, Loni 237/170/110

Ron, how old are you? I've been lurking and reading all the posts since I am too far away to go to support groups...you guys ARE my support group! I am in Indiana and too old for you. I will be 59 in May. Barbara 326/252/170 RNY 12-27-04

HEY RON I'M LEIYA, I THOUGHT YOUR MESSAGE WAS CUTE. CONGRATS ON YOUR WEIGHT LOSS. I AM ALSO LOOKING FOR SOMEONE SPECIAL . HAVE A GOOD DAY. LEIYA OPEN RNY 273/208/135

LOL... Ron, I know what you mean... however I learned quick that I need to wait a little while... the emotional roll-a-coster from the surgery made me crazy in and of itself so then I added a relationship on top of it and boy I was a basket case all of the time. When things went well it was really good but when things were bad it was horrible. So for the time being I am taking another break... but I like everyone else think you will have an easy time finding someone.... KEEP US POSTED! Jane