my rude boyfriend

hi all.. just wanting to vent ... today my boyfriend called me miserable and that he hopes this surgery doesn't work for me. isn't that rude? he's a jerk and i hate him. thanks for listening sue

Hi Sue, I am sorry he said that. My boyfriend has said that to me when we've argued however, I broke up with him 1 1/2 weeks after my surgery as I deserve better. I want someone to support my decision and not bash me or critize my decision. Trust me, he is SOOOO missing me and asking me almost daily to take him back. Hell no, he doesn't deserve me. Apparently, he didn't realize what he had until it was gone. Keep your chin up and remember that you deserve respect. We're all here for you! Jenn

hi. thanks for responding. i'm sorry you broke up with your boyfriend but it sounds as if it were for the best. hopefully one day i'll do the same. sue

Sounds to me like he's insecure. He already feels threatened by the other men that will be hitting on you when you get thin! (wont it be great hehehe)

yeah, he probably is insecure. but i got attention before this surgery and still get attention. he's just a jerk and doesn't have any other good comebacks during an argument. thanks alot for responding... sue

Yeah, they can be ******** sometimes. When came time for my surgery mine just dropped me off in front of the hospital, didn't even walk in with me. I didn't see him again until it was time for him to pick me up, again, he didn't even get out of the car. Then on my first day home, I was feeling miserable and just about everything was making me nauseated. Well he goes into the basement and starts playing electric guitar really loud. I was expecting a delivery of my Lovenox syringes and listening for a knock at the door but even if I had been a few feet from the door I wouldn't have been able to hear the knock and I was all the way in the bedroom. I managed to get up out of bed and shuffle over to the basement door. I called his name like 10 times and he was purposely ignoring me so I banged on the wall and he still ignored me, so then I shut the lights out on him. He stopped playing and started cursing at me. I said to him, it's fine for you to play guitar, just put on your headphones so I can hear when my medicine gets here. Then he screams at me that he IS using the headphones and I hear him throw something. Then he threatens me to get away NOW. (I think he threw and broke his guitar, so of course, it was all my fault.) I went back to bed and layed there sobbing. There's no reason why I should have had to put up with such bs only hours out of the hospital. There have been a couple more situations like that since then and as soon as I'm feeling better, I'm moving the hell out.

i'm sorry for your pain. you definitely do not deserve the disrespect he is giving you. especially, during this surgery recovery time. i don't know why some people get pleasure out of hurting other people. i have to say that my boyfriend was very supportive during and after the surgery. it's just the things that are said during arguments that hurt and aren't forgotten. i want you to know that you can email me or whatever if you ever need anyone to talk to . good luck with the moving out- i'm sure you're do fine... sue