Dear Steve, I am sorry it has taken so long for me to write. I have been praying and I just don't even have any idea what to say to you. I think, to me, I would want to know that you felt as devastated and empty and as sad as she is. Your baby, though it wasn't around for long, brought great joy and hope to your lives. April probably feels alone in her pain and may not know that you feel the same. One thing about great pain or great joy, people can relate to a degree, but only you are feeling the intensity. I wish I knew what to say or that something I did could help, but all I can do is pray. We all care for you here and I think about you and April a lot. Please message us and let us know if there is anything we can do. Allison

Oh, Steve, I am so sorry. You must be hurting so much, too. Please understand that right now, she doesn't see your pain. She is associating you with the loss, so seeing you makes it hurt more. She doesn't understand that it is your loss, too. Give her some time and some space. Just let her know that when she's ready, to call you. She has to heal. Losing a baby, to most women, is the worst that could ever happen. I know it is horrible for the father, too, but most women can't see past their own pain, in the beginning. Please know we are there for you. Just giver her some time and give yourself some time, too. It will get easier as time goes on. But it is going to hurt for a while. Be patient and try to go on with your daily life. We are here if you want to talk. Nona

Hi Lorraine It was her idea for me to move out.She isnt answewring my calls and she is being very cold to me.I give up,thanks for caring................steve ps: she lost the baby last friday

Hi People Well last Friday April and I lost the baby,on the same day april asked me to move out because she needed to be alone.I left and I am lost and hurting,she really killed me that day.She is acting as if we where strangers..I hope you are all well..............steve

Hello Diane! What a brave soul you are! I can't imagine what the folks there in LA went through. I have lived through a hurricane in New England, an earthquake in CA and a tornado in TX. But none of it was as horrible as what they went through. You are such a kind, giving person to go there and give of yourself until you drop. I couldn't do it. I don't have the stamina. You mentioned low blood sugar. I have it and here is what helps me. I buy low carb protein chips and keep them handy, or South Beach Diet Meal Replacement bars or their cereal bars. High protein, low carb, low fat. And they taste pretty good, too. Glad you're back, safe and sound. Nona