Negative families & WLS

"I think your sister-in-law is looking at a mirror. She sees her size and her problems and it supercedes her feelings of happiness for your weight loss". I think your absolutely right and thats a good way to put it too. "Do you go to a support group?" No I don't and I should. I've been to two or three since surgery and I have promised myself to get back in this month. Thanks for the encouragement. "You have done well and you have a practical goal in mind". I think it's ok for me to want to weigh 180 lbs. That is where I was last comfortable with myself 19 years ago. Although my Doctors say I should stop losing at around 220 lbs. Since I am allready 227 lbs. I think I'll surpass that, don't you? Thanks and God Bless you too, Di~