5+ yrs out and 2 kids later

Hi my name is Deanna I have been a part of obesityhelp since 2001, and had gastric bypass surgery Dec 2001, I lost apx 145 pnds during the first year+ and in may of 2004 had my first son and in Jan 06 had my 2nd son. I am wondering if there are any others out there this far out and also who have had kids after having lost the weight? I am fluctuating between 145-148, but my goal is to get back down to 130-135 which I am finding hard to do, I do not have energy which im seeing a dr for I just had a lot of blood work done, im just soo tired and my two boys are a handful...I can almost eat a normal serving now depending on the food. What are your weight stats as of 5 yrs out and what should they be? I do not think I am doing to bad considering but I need to know if my thinking is bad or not?? and the profile is all messed up i just dont get it i liked the old way that it was ... somehow i will need to fix it up . thanks Deanna