Please do yourself a favor, don't read the memorials.  I thought I'd look to see how many had died as a result of their surgeries, and left with such a heavy heart.
Not all had passed from complications, but there were a few. 

I've always known the risks, and have been willing to take them, but being faced with reading someones tribute to their loved one who passed from taking these same risks just puts it all into reality.

I know for every death, there are thousands of successes. I know deep down I'll be one, but still it's in my mind that something could go wrong. 
I made a promise to my 10 year old daughter, that nothing would happen to me. I'm not into the habit of making promises I can't keep, but she needed reassurance. 

So please, trust me, don't go there. It'll only serve to bring your fears forward and nobody needs that.

Mine is Nov 5 but is RNY.

Like you say to get healthy and in my case I want to play with my granddaughter as she grows up.

Good luck and stay positive.  (not going out of your mind like me)!!

Sheri

Congrats on your date. That's one month from today! I hope time flys for you.

I am also November 18th however different doctor.  Good Luck and hope to see you on the loser's bench.

Hi Renee,

Your surgeon (or nutritionist) should tell you what to do to get ready in terms of pre-op diet.  I put together a list of things to take to the hospital after reading posts on OH and looking at other sites.  This is what I have:

Toothbrush & paste

lip balm

own pillow/case

lotion

extra socks

flip flops or slip on slippers

ipod  

a shirt that buttons in front

blackberry

 

Your own toilet paper

robe / granny duster

face cream

deodorant

baby wipes

sweats

phone & charger

extra underwear

book, reading material

robe

back scratcher

Good luck!  SG