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on 5/27/08 4:31 am
Topic: RE: Update on my Mom
Susan - We are praying for her and you. Trudy
Susan Larson
on 5/27/08 3:48 am - North Charleston, SC
Topic: RE: Update on my Mom
Thank you CeCe. You're so kind. It is hard but everything will be okay soon. Thanks for the prayers! Susan
CeCeXercises
on 5/27/08 2:48 am
Topic: Our Long Holiday Is OVER - It's TUESDAY - What's your plan????
Ok, Gang, our 3 (or 4) day weekend is over and it's time to get back to reality. What have you done today to get back to a normal routine and what are you going to do the rest of the week to undo any damage you think you did over the long weekend? Planning is essential. We need to plan our exercise, our rest and, of course, our meals and snacks. One thing we can do is track our eating by writing down every bite we take. I intend to have a little notebook in several areas (including my purse) so that I can write it down RIGHT AWAY. Now, even if we plan, there are those times when we are out longer than we thought and we buy a small bag of nuts or a yogurt to tide us over and we sometimes forget to write that down. So, pay attention!! When we are writing down the food, we can also make a note how we were feeling when we chose that food. And, we need to ask ourselves whether or not we are actually hungry. More and more often lately I am NOT hungry when I'm standing in front of the fridge! How about you? For breakfast I had an old standby - yogurt mixed with 1/2 banana and a scoop of Any Whey unflavored protein powder. Lunch was cottage cheese mixed with Splenda, protein powder and watermelon!!!! I LOVE watermelon but had never mixed it with cottage cheese before last week. I dared to try it and it's good! Normally I mix cottage cheese with just about every other kind of fruit but I'm glad I tried watermelon with it! Dinner will be a spinach salad with chicken salad over top. It's leftover from my lunch out yesterday. When my salad came to the table, I asked for a box and divided it right then. My snacks will be watermelon and maybe another yogurt with protein. If I get an urge for something more "sinful" I may have a no sugar added Klondike Bar (the one with the crunchy outside)instead of the yogurt! Yum! What's happening on the Exercise Front for you these days? With the weather better, those fun things we can do with the family count as exercise! We walked the dogs several times in the park and I saw people canoeing and boating. I told my husband we need to do that soon. I think he fears I will turn us over in the middle of the lake! We also went for a very long bike ride through the neighborhood and into the park and all through the park's trails. That was fun! This morning I didn't have to teach but went to the gym and took 2 classes. The first was an Interval class and the second was Spinning. In between I did weights and walked. I've gotten in my exercise for the day! Hubby left very, very early this morning to catch a 6 AM flight. He'll be back Thursday! Wish Wanda and I lived closer to each other. If Randy is gone this week, we could shop and party!!! I've also noticed that VERY few people have checked in on the Weigh In. Just a reminder, you do NOT have to post a weight. Just let us know how you are doing, your successes, your challenges, whatever! Please be thinking about Susan's Mother and Susan and read her post. I want to hear from Valerie too. Did you EVER get moved into your "old" place?! Hope so! Please don't let our board die out! I know everyone is busy and I know we are no longer obssessed with checking the board every 5 minutes like we were in the early stages but, as I've said lately, we are heading into a new phase in our journey and we all know it is going to be challenging. We need the support of all our members to help cope and overcome these challenges. So, don't let yourself or us down, keep checking in and letting us know how you are holding on!!! CeCe
CeCeXercises
on 5/27/08 2:29 am
Topic: RE: Weekly Weigh In week of 5/26/08
Hi, Deb!! Glad you had a great weekend! I, too, had a drink this weekend and it didn't sit well with me either! Mine was a Cosmo and I guess it was just TOO sweet. I was feeling lightheaded and sick too and slept in the car on the way home! I didn't drink for a year after surgery and have probably only had about 6 or 8 glasses of wine since and one Margarita. When I started the Margarita, I had an empty stomach and after about 3 sips, I knew it wasn't going to stay down. The last thing I wanted to do was throw up in a public restroom but I had no choice! Thankfully, the person who came in waited until I was almost done and it was a waitress. I felt fine then and went back to eat my salad and even finished up the drink!!!! I was never much of a drinker and I'm sure not one now!! I wouldn't be surprised if most of us gained a little weight over this long weekend, Deb! And, I wouldn't be surprised if that weight melts back off once we get back into our routines. We probably all took in more sodium in addition to the calories and SUGAR! Your body may have a setpoint but that can change. If you really want to lose more, you can. I was shocked when I got under 140. I thought that's where I had settled. Now I think my body has a setpoint of 130. YET, I know that eating like I ate the past week could give my body a big message that I'm ready to reset that point!!! Let's all get back to working our programs! I'm feeling bloated after this weekend! CeCe
CeCeXercises
on 5/27/08 2:20 am
Topic: RE: Update on my Mom
Susan, We will all be thinking of you and your mom and praying for the family. I wish I could give you a real hug and some real help. I cannot imagine how hard it must be on you but I know your mother is so thankful for all the care and love you have given her. You are a wonderful daughter and a wonderful person. CeCe
Susan Larson
on 5/27/08 12:13 am - North Charleston, SC
Topic: Update on my Mom
I said I would post about what is going on with my Mom so hear it is. Most of you know she came to live with me almost 7 weeks ago. She was in Hospice House for 2 weeks before she came here. In the last 2 weeks her health has declined to the point that I no longer understand how she is living. We had to put a catheter in 2 weeks ago and that made her a little more comfortable because I was having to change her sheets several times a day, which caused a lot of pain for her. In case you don't know, she has end-stage COPD (Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease) and post-herpetic neuralgia from shingles 6 years ago. She has been in acute pain for the last 6 years and that is why it is such a task to change her linens or make her move at all. Anyway, last Tuesday she quit eating and drinking and taking her medicine. She is on liquid morphine and methadone for the pain, among a host of other medications. Wednesday, Hospice came in and said she would probably die within the next day or two but surely by the weekend. She was still somewhat responsive when we would talk to her. She would nod her head or move her hands. Well, as of Sunday she has been in a near-comatose state. She only vaguely responds to pain and nothing else. I am able to give her liquid morphine, liquid methadone, and crushed up ativan. She is resting comfortably as far as I can tell. It seems like the only thing working right now is her heart, which is beating very fast. I'm not sure how much longer she will hold on and I pray it won't be much longer. Basically, that's why I haven't been online much lately. I'm extremely tired right now from keeping a vigil by her bed for the last week or so. I just want her to go peacefully and quickly. If you could say a prayer asking God to bring her home I would appreciate it. I'll keep you informed as to what is going on. Hugs and love to all, Susan
Debjynx
on 5/26/08 10:51 pm - MN
Topic: RE: Weekly Weigh In week of 5/26/08
Hi everyone. We had a really fun weekend at the lake of course I ate too many sweets but oh well. I did try a little sangria slushy my first venture into alcohol since my surgery. I had two teaspoonfuls of it and I was sicker than a dog I got really pale and light headed. So I'm not going there again. One nice thing it only last about 10 minutes. I did gain this week and I'm almost back to the weight I was at before going to Rochester. I really think I'm meant to weigh this and I'm not fighting it anymore. I'd really like to weigh less to get a healthy BMI. I still fit in the smaller sizes I bought so that's good. My goals for this week is to exercise and make better food choices. Beginning Wt 298.5 This week 161.8 Last week 158.2 Gain of 3.6 Total loss 136.7 BMI 29.6 Everyone have a fabulous week. Deb
CeCeXercises
on 5/26/08 9:02 am
Topic: RE: It's Been a LONG time
Corinna, Well, hello! How wonderful to hear from you again! We are missing so many in the past few months! If you read many of the recent posts, you'll find that many of us are frustrated with slow or no weight loss or even gaining. I just mentioned in a recent post that this is the time we need even more support because it is no longer easy to lose and it's far too easy to gain! I'm sorry you went through such a hard time in your personal life but at the same time it sounds like your sure landed on your feet and may be better off than you were before (especially if your friends think it was good your ex is no longer in the picture!!!). I'm happy for you. Great job on the work outs! I'm sure you probably have built up pounds of muscle but have lost fat as well. I wonder if there have been any good studies on WLS patients as to whether or not we burn calories like others. Can we really take in as many calories as the "normal" person and expect to lose weight? I know I had trouble losing weight prior to WLS if I took in more than 1200 calories a day. If I took in 1600, I didn't lose and often gained. That didn't make sense since I was excercising hours per week but it's what the scale showed me! Right now, I think I probably easily take in 1600 a day but some weeks I lose and some I don't. So, Corinna, I don't really know the answers! Wish I did. It sounds like you are doing well almost all the time. The only suggestions I have for you are the ones I intend to use myself again. That's using the food journal and/or Fitday to really keep a close count of the calories and get back to the basics! I tend to graze and snack and I have to stop!!! Please keep coming back again and let's all help each other through this next phase of our journey! We do need each other because we are hitting that 18 month mark. It's "new" territory again! CeCe
CeCeXercises
on 5/26/08 8:50 am
Topic: RE: Weekly Weigh In week of 5/26/08
Susan, I've been thinking about you lately and I know you must have zero time for yourself right now. I'm looking forward to reading your post about your mother. I've hesitated to ask about the situation because I know it must be painful to you. Please do try to get in an adequate amount of protein each day and don't forget your vitamins. Your mom needs you right now but she needs a healthy you! In order to take care of others, we have to take care of ourselves. So, please take care and check in with us when you can. CeCe
corinnaq
on 5/26/08 5:55 am - Woodinville, WA
Topic: It's Been a LONG time
Hi everyone!! It's been ages since I was on here and I realized as soon as I got on how much I've missed this place! But the biggest thing is that I've been very frustrated with my weight and have been wracking my brain trying to figure out what to do...and I thought...gee, why don't you get back to your support network. So here I am And I'll apologize now for the super long post. So much has happened in my life that's it's just been insane. I got dumped (from a six year relationship that I thought was going to last forever), and realized that everything in our lives was his, the house we lived in, the business I've put my heart and soul into, the cars, the money, my job, everything. I had a few months of being terrified that he could just shove me out the door and I would have nothing. Happily I have a lot of supportive friends and family (who were all very happy to see him leave my life) and he mostly did the honorable thing and didn't leave me with nothing. So after about six months of hell I put my life back together, have my own place, an awesome job, and have met someone wonderful. Needless to say I was very happy to have this tool to help remind me not shove myself full of "comfort" during the hard times. Now to my weight frustration. I am stuck at 155 and have been for months. I was a 147 at one point (for probably a minute, but I was there). I started working out six days a week in the beginning of March so some of it could just be that I'm gaining muscle but I can't imagine it would be that much. Then I started tracking the food I was eating. I eat between 1200-1600 calories a day. According to all of the research I've done my basel metabolic rate is just under 1500 calories a day. That's if I literally lay in bed and don't move all day. With the exercise and just normal activity my BMR should be around 2200 calories a day...to maintain my current weight. All diets that restrict calories want you to get down to 1500 calories a day to LOSE weight. I'm easily getting 90-100 grams of protien a day, I take my vitamins religiously, drink lots of water. Last week I had gotten up to 161 and went to low carb out of desperation and am back to 155 this week...of course that was also the week I had my period so the 161 is probably not very accurate. Anyway, that's my life in a nutshell. Any suggestions or whatever would be awesome!!! Corinna Q
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