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momofsix
on 6/26/08 11:24 am - Pinckney, MI
Topic: RE: Tonight's Chat
I think soul sister is the most appropriate... I know, I tend to always blame myself for what others do.... that is a bad habit.... But I did decide that it was more that there teen age son was hoping to have some teen interactions (my sons) and both are gone now.... So I really do think that is what influenced their decision, plus they have been on the road for 2 weeks and were wanting their own beds.... So I finally came to grips with it all after talking with DH and others and realized it "probably" wasn't anything that I did..... So on a positive note..... I love my new hair color and it seems to have covered all my gray..... LOL..... I feel 5 years younger... maybe even 10...... if that is possible.... LOL I ate good today and did pretty good yesterday even with the company... I had one pinch of the brownies I made for the kids, lots of protein and some veggies... I am really trying to keep the junk out of the house and stay on track..... Thanks so much for the support and the encouragement.... I really appreciate it.... It means a lot to me..... HUGS, Shawn M.
CeCeXercises
on 6/26/08 11:03 am
Topic: RE: Accountability Thursday (6/26)
Since no one had started today's thread, I thought I would. I can't tell you how much this is helping me. I mentioned in Wednesday's that just the thought of having to post this tonight along with our chat about Beck last night helped me resist a bagel this morning. Later I went to buy fresh veggies at the little market where they have small bag servings of nuts. I just can't buy nuts in larger servings because I nibble but I sometimes buy a little bag there. I looked at them and was tempted but thought of you guys and walked right by and never thought of them again. I had planned ground turkey lettuce wraps for dinner and needed some water chestnuts and lettuce so my husband and I were in a supermarket. We were both hungry and everything looked SO good to me. I kept my eyes straight ahead, got what I needed and said we needed to get out of there! Even before stopping at the supermarket, I was feeling the urge to change my dinner plans and suggest we eat out but yet again this accountability thread saved me. So those are some of the successes and challenges of today. 1. Calories today: Computer says 1062 so again I'll say giving a little leeway that it was right around 1300. Fats were lower, under 20. Because of watermelon, banana, strawberries, the carbs were still high 130, ugh! Protein was 107. Carbs add up with the sugar of the fruit but I didn't eat starches. 2. Exercise was only walking the dogs. I allowed myself to get sidetracked this morning nad didn't make it to the gym. My daughter had surgery and I was talking to family so much that I just didn't make the effort. 3. See first paragraph for challenges/successes 4. Fluid intake - pretty good. I was very aware of it and have my shaved ice with me now! 5. Took all my vitamins 6. Mini Goal - be aware of my choices. Be aware everything is a choice. 7. Big Goal - being able to live in a world of food and choices without feeling out of control and obsessed. I seem to write something different every time but it's all in the same vein! Hope you guys had a good day! CeCe
CeCeXercises
on 6/26/08 10:52 am
Topic: Accountability Thursday (6/26)
Calories in (you can post your actual meal plan if you want to share) 2) Calories burned or time and movement / exercise (give us the details) here is a site that can give you an estimate of the calories you burned http://primusweb.com/fitnesspartner/jumpsite/calculat.htm 3) Successes / challenges (did you pass up a temptation? - do you have a challenege coming up?) 4) Water intake - how much? 5) Vtamin supplement taken? 6) Mini goal for this week - what did you do *today* to get there? 7) What is your Big goal? - what did you do *today* to get there? 8) notes -
CeCeXercises
on 6/26/08 10:47 am
Topic: RE: I guess opera singer really are fat for a reason
Corinna, Don't you just love it when science tries to give us excuses for being overweight. You know the one I hated recently was the one that said if your friends were overweight, you were more likely to be. I wonder if that actually broke up friendships? You know I could just imagine some skinny b$tch deciding she'd better avoid her pudgy friend!! Leptin may have something to do with it but, like everything else, it's a combination! I'm sure going out for extended dinners following performances and sleeping til 2 had plenty to do with Pavarotti's girth and many others! CeCe
CeCeXercises
on 6/26/08 10:38 am
Topic: RE: Tonight's Chat
Shawn, Shawn, Shawn, yet again you are showing you are my Soul Sister (or daughter!) because you are doing what I tend to do! You think you did something wrong to make your company leave early! It could have been anything! Someone once told me I couldn't possibly have all the power (negative power, that is!) that I thought I had - no one person could be responsible for so many others behaviors!!! Please, Shawn, save yourself lots of grief and don't waste your time wondering if you did anything. I'm sure you were a wonderful hostess. Did they not give some reason for leaving early? Shawn, you have enough on you without trying to second guess the world! Shrug it off, rest and be gentle with yourself! Tomorrow I want you to post at least one positive thing you like about yourself!!! CeCe
corinnaq
on 6/26/08 9:01 am - Woodinville, WA
Topic: I guess opera singer really are fat for a reason
So I decided to figure out how many calories I burn when I sing (since it sure feels like a workout after singing for an hour) and I discovered several references to this study. Because I sing I produce too much of the hormone that pays no attention to how much fat my body stores and the body becomes resistant to it which can cause weight gain. The key phrase there is "can cause". But still...how annoying is that?? Of course I can't claim it made me fat since I was already well on my way when I started http://www.nytimes.com/2008/04/01/science/01qna.html?_r=1&ref=health&oref=slogin
CeCeXercises
on 6/26/08 3:09 am
Topic: RE: 1st BECK chat is a SUCCESS
Britt, Thank you for organizing it and trying to keep us on topic too! I felt very empowered after it and that feeling has continued today. I stopped by my favorite coffee shop and got the steamed skim milk and coffee and as it was being made, I looked over at the bagels. That voice in my head suggested I was very hungry and a bagel would sure be good. I could feel myself giving in but I remembered all we'd said last night and about how we make a conscious decision whether or not to eat. I told myself that I do not eat and drink at the same time, that a bagel is not nutritious for me and not a choice that I would be proud to report to you guys later. Like Britt's friend, I saw the bagels as a challenge to me and I won that round. Once I had made the decision, I never once thought of eating again while I was in there. I enjoyed my coffee (and, no, it wasn't decaf today!) and went on my merry way. I've preplanned my menu for today and I'm sticking to it because I want to have a successful day and be able to proudly post on tonight's accountability thread. To steal Lance Armstrong's phrase: "Live Strong!" We are a team and our team spirit will see us through as we internalize the lessons to learn the tools and strategies we need! CeCe
CeCeXercises
on 6/26/08 3:01 am
Topic: RE: 1st BECK chat is a SUCCESS
Shawn, As you can see, the topics we discussed are all pertinent but you don't have to have the book to chime in! I know you don't have a lot of free time with the children, especially during summer, but if you get a chance, just drop by a Borders or Barnes and Noble, pick up the book and sit down and make a few notes. Also, there's a website too. I haven't looked at it too closely but I'll bet there's loads of info on it too. CeCe
CeCeXercises
on 6/26/08 2:58 am
Topic: RE: accountability Wednesday
I had a pretty good Wednesday. My calories were 1068 according to the computer but I'm sure in reality it was closer to 1300. I ate 81 grams of protein and 76 carbs. My carbs are usually higher than I would like but it's the fruit I eat. I love fruit. Fat grams were higher than I would like and higher than usual. They were 51. 2. Activity - I always exercise! Strength and aerobics. Probably burned about 400. 3. Successes/Challenges: Well, knowing I was going to post kept me more on track. You guys were looking over my shoulders! Also, knowing I was going to chat online, I tried to negotiate with myself when I was tempted to eat. Challenges - negotiating with myself!! Strengthening my resistance muscle! 4. Fluid - good but could always be better. 5. Got in all my vitamins. 6. Mini Goal - exercise the resistance muscle, be in the moment and be confrontational with myself when I'm tempted - don't be a wimp and give in! 7. Long Term Goals - Keep working the mini-goals until practice makes perfect. BE CONSCIOUS AND IN THE MOMENT AT ALL TIMES. BE HONEST WITH MYSELF. I am so glad we are doing this because I've been so down on myself lately. Last night I reported during the online chat that I'd written a question/answer to myself on a page of the Beck book. I asked myself why I was so resistant to planning and my honest answer was that planning would make me accountable and serve notice that I was not following through. If I just react to food - rationalize that I'll just eat this one time and never again, if I just see myself as a victim of cir****tance, if I just think it's unfair that I can't have this or that, if I don't negotiate (my new keyword today!) with myself about what, when and why I'm eating, I am not living in the moment and I'm breezing through life as a victim. I have to learn that I AM responsible for my choices and every choice is a DECISION that I made - no one else. WHEW! That's a lot to swallow! Pun intended! Stay strong! Plan! CeCe
corinnaq
on 6/26/08 2:54 am - Woodinville, WA
Topic: RE: 1st BECK chat is a SUCCESS
By the way, I'd love to use Yahoo MSG. The chat function in here isn't very user friendly. the whole manually scrolling as the conversation happened was annoying. Just my input. And you don't even have to download yahoo you can use it directly online too, you just have to set up an account. Anyway, that's my vote CQ
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