1 year anniversary

Wow I can't believe it has already been a year. I was 322 pounds a year ago and now i am 161 pounds... i literally lost half of my previous self. I was a bit lighter last month my lowest weight was 155 pounds.... lets just say i have not been taking care of myself as i should. Plus, i started dating someone special and that has definately taken up my time. I care for him a lot, but i haven't told him or my semi-new friends that i have had this surgery... i still don't want people to know. I just say its digestive issues thats why i have to eat "special". They have all been supportive and get on me when i attempt to eat something i shouldn't like bread/chips/beer. I have been having CRAZY cravings for sweets and fatty food.... any suggestions or tips. I know this is a horrible thing to admit to or even do, but as of late if I have a craving i go for it and instead of swallowing the food i spit it out... i just want the taste... does anyone else have special issues like me? Also, how about your skin? Mine sucks! I'm doing all i can weight training, excercise, body wraps.... am I missing anything? I just get really self conscious when i'm intimate with my boyfriend... my boobs have totally changed and the once full perky breasts i had are just skin Any suggestions? Thanks for reading and hope to hear from you. On the plus side i can wear a size 9 in juniors, i get hit on at parties and bars, i have a life again... .and I'm falling in love

Jennifer, you've had a great year. Congratulations. Dating is a dangerous time for our weight. I gained a lot when I started dating the man who is now my husband. That was pre-op of course but the principle is still the same. Our mind is on our man, not our health program. The chewing and spitting out can be a dangerous step. You could be heading towards an active eating disorder. If you can find a competent terapist, it would be well worth your time. As far as the breasts and extra skin...that's just our trade-off. If it really bothers you, there's always plastic surgery! Sounds like you must be looking pretty good--size 9 and getting hit on! Good for you! I wish you the best and happy anniversary!

Thank you so much.... its really great to share with someone who has walked the same road. Your kindness is definately appreciated. Thanks again and best wishes to you and your journey.

Hi! I just wanted to drop in and say congrats on your amazing journey! You have done an excellent job! Peace, Therese

322 -----> 161 YOU ROCK! Congrats on your SUCCESS! How nice that you are falling in love enjoy your NEW life Hugs, Britt

Hi Jennifer, Congrats on your amazing weight loss !! I've also had cravings that have caused me to "spit" instead of swallow. I drank Coke like it was water prior to my WLS. Lately, I'm been craving it again and have actually taken a sip and just held it in my mouth and then spit. But, like Wanda said, it's probably not a good habit to have and can lead to an eating disorder. Keep up the good work. Loretta