I am soooo sad....I have posted this in the Roux-en-y room also so you might have seen it

How can this keep happening to me!!! I went in for my last appt with my surgeon this morning and my date has been cancelled AGAIN!! I am starting to get really mad about this, I have been crying for 2 hours and I am just getting to the point I just dont think this is going to happen, I have danced their dance and now..... The only good thing that has come out of this is... She sent a consult to Dr Warnock in Wichita Falls Texas so maybe he can get me in this month, considering i am 2 weeks away and now NO date in sight.. The other BIG HUGE maybe is if one of her patients tests come back with certain results she will have to send that patient to another hospital and then she will sneak me in that spot which is the 9th, and I am not going to pray for that spot since that will mean that poor patient with cancer is worse then they thought and has to go else where for surgery and I cant pray for someone to be worse off then they all ready are.. If I have it on the 9th I will miss my brothers weddig on the 11th, and that makes me sad, but I have to do what I can for me and her next date isnt till March...I have already been waiting 3 years........... well thanxs for letting me vent I am just so depressed bnow and needed to get it off my chest..I am not asking for sympathy just friendship.. Love you guys....

That's terrible! This jouney is hard enough without all the uncertainty you are enduring! I do hope you get a solid date soon! (((((HUGS))))) Marilyn

Oh wow, that's so sad. Did they give you a reason for the cancellation? Because this has happened before, it doesn't sound like the surgeon, or clinic/hospital, is that dependable. I am sending good wishes that something soon will open up to allow you to have your surgery before March and that all will be all right.

I am so sorry to hear that...I too would look for another surgeon and place to have the surgery. If you lived closer I would tell you to go to Brigham and Womens in Mass. Something similar happened to me and they scheduled me within six weeks because I too had jumped through hoops for another surgeon/center... It is so not fair if they cancelled you to push you out to March!!!! They should make accomodations to get you in sooner! Consider yourself hugged from NH!

(((((((((((((((((((Big Hugs 2 U))))))))))))))))))) I can't even begin to imagine how you are feeling... I would be so totally ticked off and depressed as well. I wish I could give you a real hug and make things better. I hope things work out somehow for you and you get your surgery sooner than later.... Best of luck to you and prayers going out for you as well. Shawn M.

I cannot believe that you are being kept in LIMBO that is not fair sounds like that office need to get their ducks in a row. How many times have you been canceled? Well, hopefully you will not have to wait past the 13 th - crazy I had to have my surgery rescheduled because I had a cold - I know it is so hard - after you mentally prepare and make all kinds of plans. Please keep us posted and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers! Britt

Jenni I am soo sorry to hear this. After waiting 3 years and to be put on hold again. Sounds like they need to get their stuff together. I agree with the others, maybe need to find a diff doctor, even tho that could be hard too. Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Keep me posted on whats going on please. Bigg Huggs, Lori